Thoughts of the Phoenix

This is one of the better sites, but I'm still surprised at the number of messages I've received; from both Doms and subs who seem to just to want to jump right into a dynamic or even just play, without getting to know each other. That has got to be the most foolish thing I've encountered. This is not something you just jump into, even if it's just play. You have to trust each other. That isn't developed overnight. It takes time. Conversation. If you're just an insta-dom or insta-sub, then you will never find a truly fulfilling dynamic. Of course if you are just an insta, then I doubt you really care.