Mirrors Tell No Lies

UpFromTheAshes​(switch gender queer) - "Maybe this one's body can't handle it"
There is no shame in accommodation. There are things I can't do in the typical way, but want to do. Sometimes I have to think outside the box a little to find ways to accommodate my physical/mental limitations. If my ability to speak vanishes under stress, then I need to find a "safe gesture" or a noise I *can* make to stop play instead of using words. If I physically cannot handle kneeling for longer than ten minutes, then I need to work with my D-type to find a position I *can* hold that fills the same purpose (for example, I could try a kneeling chair, which would take the pressure off my joints, or I could simply sit directly on the floor in some alternate position that allows me to do the same desired actions). If I have an s-type with memory problems, who can't remember their task for the day in order to do it, then I need to help them make reminders that will work for them.

As a person who needs accommodations in my daily life as well as in my kinky life, I cannot afford to feel ashamed for having the need to do things a little differently. As a person who does find fulfilment in kink, and who desires a lot of things that, done in the usual ways, could hurt me in unnecessary and undesired ways....I believe that it is both good and important to find ways to do those things without doing the unwanted harm.

Justmerw - Upfromthaashes, athanasius for your reply, it helped.