A very intriguing question, from a new friend. I have no pictures on my profile as most of you have probably noticed by now. Mostly, that is because I would rather people know me as a person and not my looks. Often times judgements whether intentional or not arise from seeing someone's photo. This can cause people to turn away before they truly even get to know someone. Also the fact that I am not here looking for my soulmate or even a relationship adds to that fact.
In all honesty whether or not fate deems me worthy of bringing me and my soulmate together is entirely up to fate. Honestly it doesn't change me one way or the other. Yes, it would be wonderful to be brought together, but my life is wonderful either way. I have arcadia my fur baby, my family, a career, and soon a degree. I live everyday to the fullest, I strive to keep my life in order, but sometimes, I let the order go and just laugh and goof off. What more could I possibly need. I once read somewhere that if your depressed your living in the past, if your anxious your living in the future, but if you are content and happy you are living in the present. Since reading that, that is how I have strived to live. In the present and nothing more. yes I plan my bills out, and make plans for things that need to be done, but I do not linger there.
Soulmate or no soulmate I am still going to be me, my life may change a little , but not significantly. If they are my soulmate, then they won't need a picture , words will be enough. I will be enough as I am. Pictures for a long time in the past didn't even exist. People got by without electronics or vehicles. People found love without pictures or the internet. I believe that same thing is still possible today. Some of us have just gotten a little lost along the way.
So, how do I expect to find my soul mate with just words, the answer?
I don't, because I don't need to. Whatever happens will happen, and I will continue to live my life happy and unafraid. Full of hope, love, and laughter.