A Secret to tell

 Alas, I forget how conniving and superficial the world can be. A man either needs a woman to be bbw or skinny minny. Well gentleman let me give you a very big eye opener, as I cannot stand a man who makes a woman feel bad about herself because she gained weight and is trying to lose it still. Welcome to the real me at 200lbs. (photos on profile for one day only). See people have this superficial thought process that once a woman either gains or loses weight she cannot still be beautiful. Open your eyes. Women are gorgeous no matter what they weigh. If you cannot accept a woman as she is then you have absolutely no business talking to one. As women get older they will gain or lose weight, get wrinkles, have grey hair beginning to show. If you cant love her now, what makes you think you could even begin to love her then. Ugh, this is why I absolutely abhore the dating world and its biases. Yes, I get it attraction needs to be there, but make it a priority to ask first, before you get a womans hopes up. If weight bothers you ASK FIRST before you even start talking. Women are gentle , beautiful, fierce magnificent creatures that break when dropped. You better believe, however, that she is more than capable of picking herself back up and moving on with her life. So done.