After being in this lifestyle for about 10 years and dated several, I found that the girl I like is a naturally submissive girl, a slave, and/or a little girl. I learned from the experience that I really like younger, skinny/average/athletic girls. Height doesn't matter to me. I've dated gals from short to tall. I don't mind if the girl taller than me, as long as she is submissive to me. A naturally submissive girl that can obey and is willing to please is a huge turn on for me. No experience is required as I can train.
I prefer Master/slave, Daddy/girl, and Sensei/kohai types of relationships.
I don't mind online or short term play. But for long term or for life/marriage, the girl has to be my soulmate who can physically, mentally, and sexually bond, thus we can build a real loving relationship. Therefore, I prefer the girl is in Los Angeles area, Inland Empire, Orange County, or at least close. Or, willing to relocate.
I have a high sex drive. On average, I can use my girl sexually three times a day. And sexual play time can be decently long. Of course, depending on how busy we are, that may or may not happen. Therefore, I would prefer a girl that is a nympho. A girl that is physically smaller than I am is best, as I will have difficulty associating a bigger girl as a "little girl". My previous is 5'4" and less than 100 lbs. Skinny to average is fine with me. Same thing age wise. My girl does not need to be into age play; she can be her real age (younger than me) and still be my girl.