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I saw this scene I thought: "he does love her, he jumped after her after all, he just won't admit it", thanks to life and it's harsh lessons I've come to understand that he jumps, not because of love but because of ego, he has a hard time letting go of someone who adores him so much, so devoted and admiring of him, he is not jumping to save her, he is jumping to save what she represents...love to himself.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Soul Aroused Mind that understands.

Arouse me mentally so I can feel you spiritually then when we touch physically we'll fall in sync soulfully.
Everyone wants it I don't.  Someone in the growth willing to take the time with a soul and mind to arouse the rest. The taken with hand kind.  But if it's been 5 or more years untouched that soul has just been selective not all energy is the same.  But with  value.

 

"I crave so much more than just a physical connection.
I crave words and depth.
I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears.
I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface."

I don’t want to be a sweetheart. I want to be the f#cking love of your life.

 

 

 

 

 

I  I Soul Love is rare if you find it hold on to it. 

 

 

 

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who's both your partner and best friend, hold on tight. That connection is rare and precious. Don't let your flaws or fears sabotage the relationship. Work through challenges together, and prioritize your bond.

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Until we live a life free from the internal conflict between who we think we are expected to be and who we really are, we will suffer. Transformation is uncomfortable because we are having to look in the mirror and confront the untruths that we have been conditioned to believe and look deep into our own soul, into all the places that we hide from, and learn how to love ourselves there.
Without the courage to transform, we will cling to the very belief system that has been controlling us with fear, guilt and shame. Don't just ask yourself "why do I feel bad about myself?" ask "why do I HAVE to feel bad about myself?"
The answer is: you don't. You get to choose how you feel about yourself but only if you are willing to stop agreeing with the beliefs about yourself that are untrue and hurtful. You become the boss of your own life when you finally realize that you are the owner of it and you are responsible for your own choices.
-Joel Clemons •

We are attracted and drawn to what feels familiar and relatable to us, so what do you relate to or what are you drawn to: pain, anxiety, depression, chaos, drama or love, strength, courage, compassion, stability and empathy? If you don't want to prepare yourself for another toxic and failed relationship, then you have to start by healing your relationship with yourself. You have to become the person who is READY to love by treating yourself the way that you want to be treated. You have to let go of your story of unhappiness and suffering and live the story that you want to share with someone else.
Life is all about timing, so what are you waiting for, start living and loving your life so that you're ready to share it with someone else.

-Joel Clemons •

Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're lonely. They're missing somebody. They're in love with someone they probably shouldn't be in love with. They have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, dream, hope, and they look out the window whenever they're in a car or on a bus or a train and they watch people on the streets and wonder what they've been through. They wonder if there are people out there like them. They're like you, and you could tell them everything and they would understand. You're never alone.
And right now, they're sitting here reading these words and I'm writing this for you so you don't feel so alone anymore." —unknown.

I'm fine by myself, but I'm better with you. Everything that means something to me, whether it has made me laugh or made me cry, you're the person that I want to share every experience with because no matter what I'm going through, I know that with you I'm making a memory of how much I was loved.
— Joel Clemons •

Be the person that you want to attract.
Learn to love yourself without
judgement if you want someone
else to love you unconditionally.
Respect and stand up for yourself
if you want someone else who
will keep you safe.
Live your passion if you want to
find someone who makes you feel free.
The love you have for yourself is what you will look for in someone else.
-Joel Clemons

Feeling appreciated fills us with love, purpose and fulfillment. Feeling appreciated means feeling valued and being treated fairly. Sadly, most people don't feel appreciated at work, with family or in a relationship because giving is often not reciprocated so a person ends up feeling used, taken advantage of or manipulated.
Expectations are often what breaks our heart the most. We think someone cares about us the way that we care about them and so we give and share the best of ourselves and then they reward us by ignoring our needs, dismissing our feelings or always have an excuse for why they can't show up for us when we need them. It's frustrating, disappointing and hurtful. It's not real appreciation without reciprocation.
Don't just say that you appreciate someone, show them! Relationships are built on trust and trust is earned by being fair with each other. In life, you deserve the same quality of love that you give, no more, no less. If you want love, respect, trust, support, comfort or anything else, learn to be the giver of it, not a person who just expects it or feels entitled to it.
We grow to love what we take care of. The more time, energy and love that we put into something, the more that we appreciate it and that has never been more true than the love that we put into another person. We thrive when loved and feel deprived without it. Love doesn't just grow on it's own, it takes effort and when that effort is reciprocated, then the love becomes stronger, deeper and more powerful than the lovers themselves! One of the greatest gifts that you can give someone is showing them how much they are appreciated by returning the love and kindness that they show you.
-Joel Clemons

Just because somebody isn't making enough time for you doesn't always mean that you don't matter to them. It can mean that they aren't able to balance their time or their life in a way that allows them to show up for you in the way that they would like to.
The way to know that is by observing the way that they show up for themselves or others. In other words, can you tell that they are taking taking care of themselves or do they look stressed, tired or frazzled? Are other things or other people in their life also being neglected?
These could be signs of a person who is struggling  to cope emotionally or might have depression. In which case, taking the time and the initiative to check in with them would show that they matter to you and might be the best way to connect with them and be supportive so that they feel cared for instead of alone and overwhelmed.
If, on the other hand, a person is intentionally ignoring you or has pulled away to spend their time with others, then it indicates that what they were getting out of their relationship with you wasn't enough or that they don't want to put more effort into the relationship. People will always evaluate how much something is worth to them and they will pursue what they consider to be of greater value.
So it might be a good time for you to evaluate your friendship with them; are they really your friend or have you just been their friend all of this time? Have they been fair in the relationship or do they just make you feel good for all of the things that you do for them? Do they reciprocate or take advantage?
You deserve the same kind of love and effort that you give. It doesn't mean that people can or will give you that, but it means that you should only invest yourself in relationships where you are recognized and appreciated for who you are and what you bring into the relationship because that's what is fair and what you've earned.
-Joel Clemons •

We all desire to feel accepted and loved for who we are. When someone tells us that we need to be different or act different somehow, it can feel like rejection, which can lead to fear of abandonment and loss of love.
In order to defend our self worth and self esteem when it feels like we are being criticized, attacked or blamed, we might get defensive, deflect, deny or ignore what is being said to us. We might interpret our partner's need for reassurance as distrust for us and feel that we are being accused of something that we didn't do. We might see our partner's need for us to make them feel safer emotionally as them telling us that we don't care about them.
Our partner may be trying to help us be more open and honest with our feelings in the relationship so that there's greater intimacy and connection and we may take it as they don't believe us and they think we're hiding something. We might then feel that any changes of behavior that we make are admissions of guilt; that we are admitting to being an uncaring and dishonest person that can't be trusted.
The truth is, we all need to grow. Great relationships don't just happen, we have to learn how to create them, we have to learn what a healthy relationship consists of and practice what makes each other happy. It helps when we understand that how we love our partner is actually how we want them to love us; we teach them to love us by the way that we show them love.
The goal needs to be to learn how your partner wants to be loved by you; to learn THEIR love language. To do that, we need to be able to accept responsibility for our behaviors that are not making them feel loved and learn what does make them feel loved. We make our partner feel truly loved and accepted when we show them the love that makes them feel understood and safe.
-Joel Clemons•

 

This what feels like a soul love. Iris-Goo Goo Dolls  Notebook

You Have Bewitched Me - Pride & Prejudice 

Pride and Prejudice -- Mr. and Mrs. Darcy, incandescently happy

 

North and South Margaret leaves Thornton

 

 

John Thornton & Margaret Hale I Their love 

 

North and South - Proposal Scene

 

North & South ending  / train station scene 

Anne of Avonlea: Anne and Gilbert

Anne&Gilbert Kiss me

Anne & Gilbert Together

Andrei and Natasha's Waltz Scene - War & Peace

Tom Hiddleston and Mia Wasikowska Perform the Perfect Waltz | Crimson Peak

I burn for you BRIDGERTON

Daphne's Confession in the Rain to Simon

Do You Love Me? | Queen Charlotte: A Bridgerton Story

 ["North and South"] - I miss John Thornton

Penelope & Colin love 

Victoria & Albert 

Victoria & Albert  2 

Victoria - 1 Prince Albert's Entrance

 

Anne Of Green Gables Love Scene 

Lady Mary & Matthew Crawley Love Story

Justin and Serena  A Hazard of Hearts

A Hazard Of Hearts: Justin and Serena

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

"Soul Connection. I know when we are not looking but looking for friendship keep life busy and make time but allow it with flow, they find us when we are not looking. Serendipity (n.) finding something good without looking for it."

-Mysterysoul

"No matter where life takes you, there’s always someone out there whose heart feels like home. You’ll find them when you least expect it, but when you do, it’ll feel like you’ve known them forever. Some bonds are just meant to be, no matter how many lifetimes it takes."

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Lass of adult age was in the boring kingdom and had to wear sheer belly dancing clothing with steal Chasity and please the winglike she was some slave she was still yet a virgin but girls that were virgin would be someday for the kings' pleasure or married off to someone boring.

 

She was tired of living a life of pleasing someone but not getting the passion back she knew that her position would be either be passion slave to the sing or be married off she had to think quickly to escape. 

 

But she had no idea that once she made her space that the woods were full of Primal Hunters she heard in story tails but did think they were real o they are real she tried to hide in the bushes.

 

She was in her fertile stages her pheromones could be seen and smelled by a primal hunter. Someone saw her he saw her not so happy he told her I will protect you but I will have to claim you or you will be auctioned off.

 

So I must make you my own he did not force her but he said I have to capture you and will have to be my property. But the rule is I will have to ravish as prey. But she seen something in him some kind of connection and feeling she was being saved from the bore life she just want to be touched and have the feeling to be wanted with protection she has all way's desired.

 

He takes her back to the private place he gives her wine she faints and her eyes roll back aroused.

 

He had someone come in to take Chasity he did want to force her right way but he wanted to romance her and please her first but he was going to have to put put her in  submission.  Naturally her day was coming.

 

He would take and ravish her hold her down a bit force his way into her and seed her so she could carry his seed she knew she was claimed now would have to be his property for life and take what is given til this day on. But it was better than being in a boring kingdom. But the Next day He took her hand and brought her through a door to a different realm where they both could be saved to live their life in the present era of passion.

 

He ravished her with delight daily. 

 

 

 

Not all pain is the same. Just sharing. Take what you feel however, it takes you to find your own.

 I might enjoy pain but nothing that bad I will explain. This breast device only pinches the top of the skin I never dig in that far maybe some like it but any toys and devices need to be cleaned things can only be temporary for so long it is deep and the Dom would have to meditate the sub with stuff nothing permanent and the Dom would only do on parts that others can't see and the body can not be hit every were cause injury good to learn were to hit not to. 
 I had red and bruises on my bust but nothing to make it bleed never would I go that far its only the top layer of the skin just like when you hit the knee in the doorway it leaves a bruise that will fade over time.  Gags some have holes in them you just have to find the right size not all gag balls will fit everyone's mouth gotta get the right one.   
Needles but only on the top layer nothing deep like putting the needle on top later of the top of your nail.  Everyone has a different pain level not all the same. And if you get Red and bruises Dom needs to put some cream so it heals and take breaks from the paddle or caned for a few minutes at a time depending. Only way I learned to love pain with a hood on but it has holes and gag you still talk and can breathe you still see out and can breathe Dom still sees you and checks on you even if you like sensory derivation still do it safely. 

Most of us might also like to be locked in a little tight with device stuff but not too tight you still need to breathe. Even with a corset get some made for you wear a little loose but wear little tight but enough to breathe and only wear so long. 

 Tried Electro does not hurt it's just a vibration but not all  Electro is the same depending on the unit of level ya it makes Twitch all about going to do it's like your sex parts are sensitive going to make you jump til you feel a sensation to it. The posture collar that another thing that will keep standing up straight and keep your neck up. Pain can not just be inflected needs to be a passion with romance arousing the mind and teasing the body to tease the person's parts to get the parts aroused that the body begs for pain and pleasure and inflicting pain. Cuffs and restraints being tied up don't do it too tight try to move your Sub around and allow them to move around freely why can only leave someone so long in a potion the body circulation needs to move around. The sub should always have a spare key if they need to get out for safety. Good to practice safety everything talked about and agreed on beforehand with the person you know earned your trust and respect both ways. 
Pain should never be out of anger it can ruin a bond of trust that is breaking trust everyone has feelings so if you not having the best day take a break get some air take some time for space re balance. A sub can pick out things the Dom can use and try if don't like the next this is how you make check list and explore more into it.

 Sex does get me at first has to be a feeling and a connection with understanding not everyone for everyone but you explore with a friend or companionship til turns into more cause you gotta start with friends and keep building something together. 
When I got all into this was only training was not having sexual intercourse was only to help train for the present timing the sex was saved to be reserved that bit more old school but they did use toys some things should be forced on people cause sex should only be your future partner you have a great connection, not the trainer I guess it depends for everyone but some want to safe for the right person. But good to practice safe sex think before you leap. 

Never give up your desires but save for the right time don't get just get horny over attachment grow a get invested emotionally invested before getting hooked. Keep it in moderation time and place for it.  The only thing that I could say to extreme people putting hooks in the back of their spine wrapping around the bones is more a bit of nono I have seen but looks like they going to rip the skin then they hang from it ya some things should be done. So the things I said before are not that bad the skin-bone hanging is more like never going there.

 

You just need to find what works for you but do it with someone take it slow nothing can be dependi should be someone done research or trying on yourself or has little experience don't have to be an expert but keep growing and learning practice till you get the hang of it but everyone grows and evolves. Aftercare is a must playing doctor and nurse both Dom and Sub need. Safe words and safe and sane need limits and keep them nothing no limits you are human be better than that don't need to be rushed to the ER.  Have fun be safe.

 

Sado Promise to a Maso, It's a fundamental part of who we are. Giving pain is very much something that I need but it's crucial to me that the person I'm sharing the pain to need it. Exchanging pain forges a deep connection not just during the exchange, but afterward during the aftercare.     You don't have to be maso or sado but even if you like soft stuff everything needs to be agreed on with connection and feeling with being aligned cause you want to know if you can trust this person. Figure out what you like and don't like that person respects your limits and wishes two people to exchange pleasure that the bond both share. no one can just beat you it needs to be taken slow and worked up to. Use the imagination and play to stay together and keep it going read erotica go to museums and art places have erotica look into taboos you may like. know book what you have to do your do your own as long its respect. But also use safe words. Anyone who tells you they want no limit person someone who is not right for you needs a safe sane connection. If does not feel right then its no still a no then best to say hey we need to stop do something else.

 

don't have to 

Ju

— lorinkrenn