CottageGardenGal
masochist female

Hampshire, Illinois, United States
Age
40
About me
 
Just not looking but maybe if it comes to the right one can light a soul understand to read it. Forced connections won't work. There has to be a genuine connection that grows beyond that. .
Person who is healed with growth understands the lass that evolving with them. Person with growth , Love , Gratitude , leads , teamwork , puts their lady first, checks on her , protects her , takes responsibility. If she has to speak up, it's her love telling you something.

Jerkry will end with no message in return.

Did you eat or sleep ? Good Morning ? Checks in, these are little things that show a rare good character of caring.


Our souls do not speak a human language; they communicate to us through symbols, metaphors, visions, poetry, deep feeling, and everyday magic.



Your Naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with your naked soul. - Charlie Chaplin

Intelligent conversation, laced with wit, subtlety, humor, and mutual satisfaction (everything to do with it)
Yet a mystery within vintage Syfy until today, in another place and another time. Life is a journey into the unknown... Mountain or sea? Both, it's more adventurous. • Deep conversations • Forgotten languages • Infinite places • Artistic balance •

















A brilliant mind will keep the fondness of soul connection.

Ev“Toto,  a feeling we’re not in Kansas anymore.” Dorothy

Every adventure requires a first step." -Cheshire Cat


Keep looking not for a person but for your passion, Your Love, Your Courage, Your goals, your dreams, your happiness, and yourself. keep looking. Explore your worth before you explore another.  


Forget about sex. Just play first.Dance,sing,read to each other,breathe together-commicate. Don't count on sex as the door to intimacy. It's the other way around: First develop intimacy skills. Then make love to enjoy them.


Monique Bon - La Musique





La bellezza in tutto

L'amicizia spirituale è un legame quelli nella mia vita esseri belli Grazie.

Persone vicine al mio cuore so di condividere le cose solo con loro.


La bellezza in tutto

L'amicizia spirituale è un legame quelli nella mia vita esseri belli Grazie.

Persone vicine al mio cuore so di condividere le cose solo con loro.



Non puoi far capire a qualcuno un messaggio che non è pronto a ricevere. - il buon quota Il tuo io interiore è ciò che sei veramente all'interno. Conoscere il tuo io interiore è conoscere il tuo scopo, i tuoi valori, la tua visione, i tuoi obiettivi, le tue motivazioni e le tue convinzioni. Non quello che ti è stato detto da altri, ma quello che hai scoperto per te stesso. Conoscere il tuo io interiore richiede un alto livello di introspezione e consapevolezza di te stesso. Équilibre JBasta ingoiamento libero arbitrio.



Condivido le cose solo con persone vicine al mio cuore come amici e familiari


Si ottiene più sicuro man mano che si invecchia. Non so perché. Immagino che tu abbia sperimentato di più? Hai già attraversato alti e bassi. Hai solo un senso migliore di te stesso. -Keira Knightley
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_hP5iDc_-lw
Non aspettarti che l'amore costruisca una connessione, gli



Une fois que vous vous aimez, vous pouvez voir le monde autour de vous que l'amour est partout signifie être un amant, mais l'amour coule à travers. « La seule chose à faire dans la vie est de trouver la forme d'amour où nous pouvons donner le meilleur de nous-mêmes et du monde. »

Anastasia- At The Beginning By Richard Marx and Donna Lewis
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=176&v=r0SocbXEal8&feature=emb_logo
Once upon a dream
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=176&v=xvOV-tTdG60&feature=emb_logo
Vanessa Williams - Save The Best For Last
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EdmHSTwmWY&feature=emb_logo



On adventure love seeing the beautiful things in this world.

-All'interno*
We all share are art its what makes world go around......
Qualsiasi altra cosa con cui condivido solo con coloro che mi sono vicini non solo le cose il suo valore. Inizia davvero con te che ti concentri su te stesso come quando ti svegli devi fare un favore a te stesso e poi a tutto il mondo. Non c'è niente di male nel prendersi cura di te stesso che vuoi avere tempo da solo quando sei pronto.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=52&v=LtrF8ZM4NGM
Unità•Pace•Amore•Usare la mente con intelligenza costruendo una profonda connessione nell'anima. Lascia all'immaginazione. Linguaggio del corpo con passione e lusinghiero. Esplorare luoghi vacanza in beatitudine.. Non puoi forzare una connessione che incontriamo le persone giuste al mome



Il misterioso e mantenendo l'immaginazione molto di più per essere più affezionato ad avere una sola persona per te stesso. Mente brillante con una conversazione profonda che entra in profondità nella mente e scopre ciò che è davvero reaks all'interno. Misterioso e affezionato all'immaginazione molto di più per essere più affezionato ad avere una sola persona per te stesso. Il desiderio profondo è aperto solo alla rarità dell'anima giusta e all'aliment vibrazionale. Una connessione, chimica, connessione soul, attrazione, più sentimento. Non dolore per una relazione, ma una connessione soul con grande connessione, conversazione profonda con l'universo. Inizi con un'amicizia più di ogni altra cosa. È raro, è fuori dal mondo è così completo.




Moon
Affirmation
alive
Magic
time
leaves
Essere investiti emotivamente prima di essere agganciati. Mostrando effetto dolce effetto le stampe blu parole dolci non farà. Aspettatevi l'imprevisto. La vita è piena di cose meravigliose che aspettano solo di sorprenderti. Acque disperate non sono per me mi piace la pazienza. Senza comunicazione non c'è relazione. Senza rispetto non c'è amore. Senza fiducia non c'è motivo di continuare.



Love is a strong thing. We are all flowers every color if was the same be very boring look in a soul you will see many colors.

Via Con Me (It's Wonderful) Swing jazz
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vjU-EqwMSo







Adventure. . .
Beyond places. . .
Dreams cape. . .
Old School. . . .
Present time. . . .



1950s/ Adventure/ buddha/ D/s Dancing/ Eleganc/e Enchantment/ Gen x/ Jazz/ OldSoul /seductive/ old soul/ bottom /Soul Connection/ Soulful/ Syfy /Unattached /Universe /Vintage.




“Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder…”– Thoreau


art, music, philosophy, psychology, futurology.



hobbies :
• Photography • Poetry • Sci-fi-Fantasy • Travel •Endless exotic places • Music • Events • Exploring • Good eats • dining • relaxing  spots •  • Good conversation • Parks • Horseback riding • Beaches • Decorating • Fine Art • Museums • Historical • Amusement Parks • Water parks • Hiking • Painting • Reading • Exercise • Learning something new • Rafting • Forest • Botanical gardens • Bird watching • Board Games • Gardening • Cottage Core• 


What makes you happy? Embracing mind body soul in and what shines through. Lifting life  with strength to thrive. waking up every day with happiness. Little meditation and yoga and sitting in the sun recharges the batteries. This world is full of magic and possibility, you just have to believe it.


••Focused  on my passion & authenticity.••
Being my true Goddess divine self love and light with higher self in with in the universe to the highest good in the spirituality.




“It is better to be absolutely ridiculous than to be absolutely boring.”


Once upon a time, there was an innocent and magical time called the late 70s 80s 90s and early 00s early times years. We got it back.



elegance, Vintage Bliss , Seductive, intellectual mind ,Intoxicating,Beautiful Mind, Soul that shines through. Holistic, Universe,  Confidence , Witty ,.Laughter, Passion. 




Happy the way it is. Thy thee. Not a single not taken, just reserved as a soul that respects takes the time emotionally invested.   Don't come here for a relationship.  Get to know thee on a deep level in connection and soul.  

rare to awaken a soul's mind.

Please don't take it personally, take it in moderation just because I share or write does not mean I want to be hit up. 

Our souls do not speak a human language; they communicate to us through symbols, metaphors, visions, poetry, deep feeling, and everyday magic.

 She is my girl, she may not be perfect but she is perfect for me and our hearts are crossed.

Your naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with your naked soul. - Charlie Chaplin

Intelligent conversation, laced with wit, subtlety, humor, and mutual satisfaction (everything to do with it)

Yet a mystery within vintage Syfy, in another place and another time. Life is a journey into the unknown... Mountain or sea? Both are more adventurous. • Deep conversations • Forgotten languages • Infinite places • Artistic balance •






23/25 Ciro numbers don't permit the years but here we go. some acknowledgment.
What's new
BDSM and me
Bottom, Femme Fatale, Intellectual Masochist, Tradwife
Orientation
Demisexual    Noetisexual   Sapioromantic    Noetiromantic
Pronouns
She/Her, One/One's

Zodiac Sign
Cancer
I speak
English


Ethnicity
Caucasian / White
National heritage
American
Build
Curvy
Height
5' 5"
Hair Color
Brown
Hair Length
Shoulder length
Best feature
Smile
Body Art
None
Health Condition
No problems
Bra size
46+ / 105+
Cup size
E
My Attractiveness




No children

Housing Situation
All is calm
Living Arrangements
With roomate(s)


Education & Employment
Education
College Associates
Specialty
Art / Music / Literature









Connections and more. A nice walk, coffee shop, dancing.
Ethnicity
Caucasian / White, Asian, Mixed Race









I'm turned on by
A combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)



My role is
Masochist



A lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyle
24/7



Experience level
Expert



I enjoy
Kidnapping, Sensory deprivation





I enjoy sex:
But need connection and feeling first. 


Sex is
Right one 


Most partners at once:
Only one on one


Dirty talk
Turns me on


Night life:
Don't like going out


Cybersex
No, I need the real thing

Oral Sex is
It's OK, but I prefer penetration

Anal sex is




"Off Limits":
Nothing that is illegal









 
More of a taken in hand - Not all name brands or have to the newest but vintage never goes of style and class does not ether. It's more like old, not flashy, with an attraction because it lasts longer. You have to open more doors and it's fine to be a bit selective but take the clique stuff out. You may not find someone home down it will take distance and time but flow with peace let loss make a great friendship in to courtship allow to grow both just have to invest emotionally invested and more. Takes four seasons to get to someone.


One thing is that not everyone is going to have it all together at first, more so when it's messy and unexpected when you truly find each other. But willing to grow through the madness, ugly, good bad, ride and die. Heal childhood things past and cut cords and mend but evolve together with yin and yang. Just flow with the same self care and love the same as attraction with abundance. Have peace, lose yourself, be what you want to become. Be careful what you wish for, you might just get what you wish.Do things you never did get the things you want.



23/25 Ciro numbers don't permit the years but here we go. some acknowledgment.



Taken in hand, dynamic with a Grown, secure, unattached, sado, soft, Dominance, with respect, carries themselves with pride, takes pride in appearance, in the 1950s/now. Ltr: Combination of both the brilliance of Rod Sterling and Shakespeare..with a small dallop 40to55

Arouse me mentally so I can feel you spiritually then when we touch physically we'll fall in sync soulfully.
Everyone wants it I don't. Someone in the growth willing to take the time with a soul and mind to arouse the rest. The taken with hand kind. But if it's been 5 or more years untouched that soul has just been selective not all energy is the same. But with value.

"I crave so much more than just a physical connection.
I crave words and depth.
I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears.
I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface."

I don’t want to be a sweetheart. I want to be the f#cking love of your life.
Limits
A mystery to only one I share it with.
What's new
Beautiful Mornings
Cup Of Joe ☕️




You look so gorgeous as you smile darling, but there's violence in your beauty- it sparks electricity that races through my bones.
-Apurva
Member since
Aug 26, 2023
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