𝘚𝘰𝘧𝘵 𝘕𝘰𝘵𝘦

It's not really the age, it can happen to anyone.  

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🌱 🌳 🌿 🌼 💐🌷🌹🌸🌺 👩 🌾 🌷 🏡

Enjoy everything, the little things like gardens , essence of life , Peace , Tone of heart , Written soul.

And so I chose to live in soft era. 

For the good people left in this world

And for the endless possibilities

I speak for the tree's , Soft era gardens , with nature , with soft erotics artfulness.🏡

Not the titles and bla bla its really the moments and company shared with right one. Union of connection and companionship that can be more witthout the bull but connection deep soul aligning strength that exists. 

What did it mean when a guy said that he enjoys my company?

When I say it, it means

I feel alive.

I'm happy when you're around.

I wish our talks could last much longer.

I wish to see you more often.

I could talk with you for hours and completely forget about time.

I would drop everything I'm doing if you said can we talk?

I like to listen to your stories.

I do care.

I wish the time we spend together would never end.

Not all of us men are stupid and simple. There's always a meaning behind what I say, it either means what it means, or it has a lot more deeper meaning to it, which is usually the case.

Not all of us think about sex all the time.

I personally like an intimate relationships, just talking, cuddling. (Doesn't mean I never get sexual desires)

It's just that deeper love is what I seek and enjoy.

Many women don't believe in what I say because I'm guessing 99% of the men they've been with are all the same.

So I do care, I do think about you, I do like to just cuddle and sleep together, I like talking to you, I do listen, I do remember the things you told me, yes I do care about the finances, but you will always come first before anything else, doesn't matter whether I'm reading, listening to music, planing to go somewhere with friends, if you sit next to me and lay your head on me, I won't and don't want to go anywhere.

So when they left, it absolutely broke me.

It's been a while so I've learned to get over it, but the hole is always gonna be there, no matter what I do. That's why the time I spend with you is the most valuable thing to me, and I would get off of work early, or forcefully create the time to spend time with you. You make me happy and you mean the world to me, because without you, I might've killed myself today, your existence stopped me from doing so.

That's how much I like spending time with you.

That's the meaning behind “I like spending time with you”

The statement "it has to be more than I enjoy your company" suggests a deeper level of connection or appreciation than just a simple liking for someone's presence. It implies a stronger bond, possibly based on shared values, a mutual understanding, or a profound respect. 

Unless the love comes kissed by flames and dipped in magic, I don't want it.
- Ann Marie Eleazer

"Life is like a cup of tea; it's all in how you make it."
"A day without tea is a day without joy."
"Tea: the answer to most of life's questions."
"There's always time for tea."
"You can't get a cup of tea big enough or a book long enough to suit me."
"Tea tempers the spirit and harmonizes the mind, dispels lassitude and relieves fatigue, awakens thought and prevents drowsiness, lightens or refreshes the body, and clears the perceptive faculties."

Cup of tea. 

After tea. 

When a sub is silent,

They are either over thinking,
Mad as hell, falling apart,
crying inside,
or
All of the above.

You have to be gentle with a sub because they are made from the rib a sensitive creature they need to feel calm and safe til they feel protected.

They need compassion of a good leading hand that is willing to keep them safe 

The way you treat someone reflects so be careful how you treat someone you give crap prepare to get shit back they may not be around any more good people are hard to find and hard to replace.  Just be their for them be a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear wipe thier tears that all it takes because sometimes we do not have all the answers but it helps.  

“Whatever you give a sub, they will make greater. If you give them sperm, they give you a baby.. If you give them a house, they give you a home. If you give them groceries, they give you a meal. If you give them a smile, they give you their heart. They multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give them any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!”

Both ways ,

You deserve a calm love with someone who is good for your mental health and nervous system. 

Masculine energy protects 

Submissive energy heals 

Together, they Create Wholeness.

Growth it shows , They text their submissive. Ask them how their day is. Call them to hear their voice.
Take them on dates. When they have a problem they listen and figure out a way to solve the sub’s problems. They do not argue with their sub. It's the little things that separate a boy from a man. And a grown-up sub loves that.  But really for both sides of the stick. 

Submission does not mean weakness it means to even the strong speak up use your mind, show your feelings, you we are human both are.  

Know that two people are not perfect but it takes two people to come together, be imperfect through the mess but come back when it works on things together. Respond to things with peace. 

Dom also needs their sub just as the sub does that is a big difference and a good one. Two people really hold the keys in the dynamic relationship.Don't be fooled can't be the only one you need two for it to last long you need a team work and agreeing and two people learn from each other and grow a bond how this whole thing works. 

❀ " You enjoy this place in utter bliss. But good friendship and freedom be peace.

"But you don't have to run into a partnership or a relationship of more,

But you're just enjoying whats right now nothing more." ❀

Have a lovely Sunday Evening. . . . 

P.S.

We're all trying things and trials but we're taking it slow. We may see ones  collared but they may be on trial or trying things and growing a bond , protection  under some in the mean time  - it all depends.  Take it slow with feelings and bond as they grow over time. It takes four seasons to evolve with one getting to know them . . . .  But enjoy the season getting emotionally   invested before getting hooked, I know that heart but its flow in time allow to grow. Go with the flow. 

Let it be. . .. 

You see colors, can use shapes at first to guide.

The flower is a good one to start with. Close your eyes,

Look up with the third eye and imagine the light going into your body like a glove bringing light through your body. Spring is a season of change, Cocoon of blooming.Lift thee with the light, the love flows and gratitude.

Mother Earth and Sun Source. We need the sun and moon and earth it vibes us we are a temple rise at all times.  Take what you feel you want to be. 

Not high or anything ADHD get high on grounding outside and taking in the air then energy them motions of nature.  Love your home and place this your home for now its temporary so make it a good one be good to it will take care of you. 

If we can’t be goofy together then why bother

“If someone treats you badly recognize that there is something wrong with them, not you. Normal people do not go around destroying other people.”
— Unknown

half of your beauty comes from the way you speak and treat people.

“Don’t lose yourself. Know your worth. Leave what isn’t for you. Save space for people who matter.”
— Unknown

“One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it’s guilt, love, anger, loss or betrayal, change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go.”
— Unknown

“If you don’t fight for what you want, don’t cry for what you lost.”
— Jan Jansen

“It takes a huge effort to free yourself from memory.”
— Paulo Coelho

Like the moon, I want to touch places just by looking. To tell new things at three in the morning, when we’re awake with rain or any sadness, or slendering through reeds of sleep, surfacing to skin.

-Anne Michaels

B U S T O U T
Vibrant & Colourfully

Sometimes you need to sleep, sleep a lot. Not to escape, but to rest your soul from your feelings. Because everything, absolutely everything devours you. Completely.
—Brain

Nature doesn't hurry, yet everything is accomplished.