𝘚𝘰𝘧𝘵 𝘕𝘰𝘵𝘦

This is something that is missing the forgotten knowledge but nothing to relearn but remember the sacred we have. 

This is what real sacred love is of the intimacy even in the dynamic just society  wants to hold that off know your allowed to evolve. 

Talk to yourself like you love someone, romance your life, be good to it. Let go of old habits to make good ones. 

So after being with the wrong kind I wish well put worth more in to me putting soft era and fierce mind with boundaries and clearing and coming making space for self and things and time and place. Not dated anyone since 2019 or met anyone who, well, was willing to move mountains.  

Your writings are your greatest pieces use it to create.    He said you deserve a good love. 

It comes down to this: my way of writing was my manifestation of creating abundant love. Like practical magic, she creates her guy but no magic spells.Movies that that had integrity in life - Meet Joe Black, North and South 2002.  More of inspiration but for my own in a different way.   Flow creates as you go the the life to create happiness you must make happiness. But let go of things no longer, but with love and peace, but let it be free it will find you.   But this something can not come for free or handed out this something comes your purpose doing for own but someone can guide you but its up to you all it takes saying I can will climb that hill the step to take. 

This Friday we  meet but we have grown a connection but have been taking it slow. He is flying to me he knows that makes more controllable to feel safe they came first to see me.  French Canadian with lovely green eyes all I see is a universe beautiful soul aura as beautiful  vessel we can share life with and explore and evolve.  I never asked for things but they said they are fine to be HOH me staying home but I would share life. Just more flow to keep it rise like first time you meet keep growing and being spirit together.   They will not be like the movies but something that fits in the mold nothing perfect but imperfect that will see past all things. 

In the beginning of my life there were hardships but in the end was me growing and evolving. Life is about growing and sharing life. Sometimes it’s going to take time but if you match the energy and time and flow, let the unexpected be the best not when you’re looking but when you let go of things so you find the flow of what you are worthy of.  Right connection and vibration when it's time so match with being the partner becoming the partner how you like and ready to get in return.   Tall dark rich and size you gotta let that go just flow with love with art and creating with good do it with flow with visualization and intuition. You can have someone, but the ego has to bloom and heal as well. The snooty and gossip cut cords let it go in the wind let it be go on your own new light. . Put your life in focus on the good and let go of the crap first so you life can be at ease.  Peace is everything.

Don't worry put with focus flow keep busy have routine make time still put self out there but make sure make space for self but allow love but still understand selective but the right kind will come out without looking but will understand alignment will know details about you know no one else can see through you. 

Before someone taught me love, what fear was , push me , to lose myself many so those bits and pieces even if it was good or bad it will teach you until you start knowing what going on look and listen. Know the perfect life of someone but you can make perfect even in the imperfect.  Until you get out of the trap of the old life and start a new one. Does matter your even if your in a mess, be ready for the change, but be willing to take the climb just little ways up. 

We may not meet here but cage is an outlook and an open door to the dynamic but helps overcome and evolve. 

He understood my words.  

Your poetic flowing profile has a Sylvia Plath resonance, Virginia Woolf, I'm completely drawn into your flow.Who are your poetic influences?

I have healed save for the original wound, when the One cut themselves open (pain) to create their counterpart, so they could know themselves. It's a relational wound, this near eternal pain which creates the yearning to be bound back up with that complimentary masculine/feminine energy balance, so to me it has to be healed relationally, sexually, with pain. Once we re-connect with our divine counterpart we will heal together and then co-create not a perfect life with structure and no problems, but an authentically expressed existence authentically imprinted with our unique signatures, exploring the depth of our passion with playful graffiti splash hurricanes, not following any recipe but creating our own dishes, manifest - paint pictures in our mind (go to the darkest deepest layers my dear) and pull them from the ether...

You reference the Secretary, her hands laid on the desk

His bonfire was like mine, it matched my soul - but he did see mine, we both dreamed of are own, we meet. 

Let's explore each other more,  I'm down for it. I want my relationship to be a bonfire at night, little sparks warming the tinder then bursting into flame, that opens up and grows loud and bright, arching back and proclaiming love, casting sparks high in the air to match the stars and comets shooting across the sky, then gradually calming and cooling into embers, the deepest hottest level of passion, from without to go deeper within, keeping each other safe and warmly glowing anonymously forever...

Hi Doll, did my message resonate with you? I'd love to hear from you

 I picked up on your references and I felt in flow with you, which usually only happens in person.
We're already entangled, we speak the same language(s) , we could heal together (to me, healing is an initiation
into an intimate relationship (that you want to work on!), it's a beautiful way to bond and establish trust,

Here is my bonfire like his matches with soul (take my hand)

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Some helpful things.  some in time writings I have shared. 

"feminine intuition," 

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Home Grown

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Know what is really, Powerfully sexy?

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Food for thought

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Ride or Die - Harley & Joker "Would You Live For Me?

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Dear Beef Jerky ,

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Soul Aroused Mind that understands.

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Soul Deep Connection deep spiritual dynamic

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Your battle is my battle

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Yin & Yang rise

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Depth

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"I crave so much more than just a physical connection.

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Dear Gentle Gentlemen , But as the year ends.

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As the year ends. . .

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Two Givers 

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Peace Have a wonderful rest of the week. As the cage wheel turns. 

It's not really about the money and status, but what you can do for each other and sharing life together with love , team work , company , time , bond , balance , trust , agreeing , the moments , what is within the heart and soul.

This is bit classic in the Dynamic. 

 Even if it 2025 but whatever Dynamic, even in D/s, still two people one can not do it alone. 

A place of safety and wholeness The power of the leading hand coming with the calmness and safety and protection made his bottom feel whole with him and bind  a bond allowing her to grow and bloom in his hand like a tiny dancer she dances around as he natures her.  Granting into intimacy needs to be stimulation of the mind and soul before even touching anything must arouse the mind with soul aligning. Times may have changed but connection never goes out of style in being classic.  

Just like the 1950s just want to add her feminine touch in with grace but to be in good hands that she and share it with someone that respects it allow to.  Sex is part - not really the big thing at first but building a genuine first to see if there is one, if both click then builds in to courtship. Not a lot to ask she only wants to be under a man that will serve but someone that respects her return that is still a two way street as team work.

When you like a flower, you just pluck it. But when you love a flower, you water it daily" is attributed to  Buddha and is used to illustrate the difference between liking and loving. It's a metaphor highlighting the difference between casual interest and deeper care. The quote suggests that when you simply like something, you may consume it or take it for granted, but when you love it, you nurture and cherish it. 

Just as this writing at bottom I put together a bottom needs to feel calm and safe even with the nervous system system. Don't have to have to have kids but  but wanna keep a bottom you have to keep them a bit happy or everything shuts down. 

nervous system can shut down be hard to with fertility or to be intimate  - the body and mind needs to feel cam and safe or it feels unprotected wanting to leave. Both partners need love , peace , support , time . slow pace. Creating a life takes time it needs to be done slowly sometimes it can take years but needs to be balanced with both working together.One also has to stop smoking or drinking also the if the one leading hand understand might be habit one might be using to control stress but its not working. But it can hurt and harm fertility.

They need to support you and be willing to grow with peace with this. You're not the problem, it's your partner's attitude - they may be dealing with their own stress so they need to find peace and not take on you but they need to admit it.

They need to be willing to change their tune or it's their own fertility problem, not yours. Both partners need to work together eat right take the right vitamins. Soy can ruin a mans fertility some foods. Some food and crap or health supplements can stop you from having fertility for a while. Check the ingredients of things stop taking things if its effecting ether of you in any way.

If they truly love you they won't make it a problem they will make peace both find away you both need to come together in complete peace to make this work it will take time. Nothing can be rushed it only hurts people so take it all slow.It does not matter if you ether you can't then you need to adapt, get adoption or find another way.

When a sub is silent,They are either over thinking, mad as hell, falling apart,crying inside,or All of the above.
You have to be gentle with a sub because they are made from the rib a sensitive creature they need to feel calm and safe til they feel protected.They need compassion of a good leading hand that is willing to keep them safe The way you treat someone reflects so be careful how you treat someone you give crap prepare to get shit back they may not be around much longer good people are hard to find and hard to replace. Just be their for them be a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, wipe their tears that all it takes because sometimes we do not have all the answers but it helps.

Both ways ,You deserve a calm love with someone who is good for your mental health and nervous system.Masculine energy protects Submissive energy heals Together, they Create Wholeness.Growth it shows , They text their submissive. Ask them how their day is. Call them to hear their voice.

Take them on dates. When they have a problem they listen and figure out a way to solve the sub’s problems. They do not argue with their sub. It's the little things that separate a boy from a man. And a grown-up sub loves that. But really for both sides of the stick.Submission does not mean weakness it means to even the strong speak up use your mind, show your feelings, you we are human both are.Know that two people are not perfect but it takes two people to come together, be imperfect through the mess but come back when it works on things together. Respond to things with peace.

Leading Hand also needs their sub just as the sub does that is a big difference and a good one. Two people really hold the keys in the dynamic relationship.Don't be fooled can't be the only one you need two for it to last long you need a team work and agreeing and two people learn from each other and grow a bond how this whole thing works.

Marriage Is a Partnership (1951)

1950s Film - The First Year of Marriage - Learning to Live Together

1950s EDUCATIONAL SOCIAL GUIDANCE FILM " COURTSHIP & MARRIAGE

How Much Affection? (1957)

It Takes All Kinds (1950)

1950: "Choosing for Happiness"

DATE ETIQUETTE

It's not really the age, it can happen to anyone.  

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Enjoy everything, the little things like gardens , essence of life , Peace , Tone of heart , Written soul.

And so I chose to live in soft era. 

For the good people left in this world

And for the endless possibilities

I speak for the tree's , Soft era gardens , with nature , with soft erotics artfulness.🏡

Not the titles and bla bla its really the moments and company shared with right one. Union of connection and companionship that can be more witthout the bull but connection deep soul aligning strength that exists. 

What did it mean when a guy said that he enjoys my company?

When I say it, it means

I feel alive.

I'm happy when you're around.

I wish our talks could last much longer.

I wish to see you more often.

I could talk with you for hours and completely forget about time.

I would drop everything I'm doing if you said can we talk?

I like to listen to your stories.

I do care.

I wish the time we spend together would never end.

Not all of us men are stupid and simple. There's always a meaning behind what I say, it either means what it means, or it has a lot more deeper meaning to it, which is usually the case.

Not all of us think about sex all the time.

I personally like an intimate relationships, just talking, cuddling. (Doesn't mean I never get sexual desires)

It's just that deeper love is what I seek and enjoy.

Many women don't believe in what I say because I'm guessing 99% of the men they've been with are all the same.

So I do care, I do think about you, I do like to just cuddle and sleep together, I like talking to you, I do listen, I do remember the things you told me, yes I do care about the finances, but you will always come first before anything else, doesn't matter whether I'm reading, listening to music, planing to go somewhere with friends, if you sit next to me and lay your head on me, I won't and don't want to go anywhere.

So when they left, it absolutely broke me.

It's been a while so I've learned to get over it, but the hole is always gonna be there, no matter what I do. That's why the time I spend with you is the most valuable thing to me, and I would get off of work early, or forcefully create the time to spend time with you. You make me happy and you mean the world to me, because without you, I might've killed myself today, your existence stopped me from doing so.

That's how much I like spending time with you.

That's the meaning behind “I like spending time with you”

The statement "it has to be more than I enjoy your company" suggests a deeper level of connection or appreciation than just a simple liking for someone's presence. It implies a stronger bond, possibly based on shared values, a mutual understanding, or a profound respect. 

Unless the love comes kissed by flames and dipped in magic, I don't want it.
- Ann Marie Eleazer

"Life is like a cup of tea; it's all in how you make it."
"A day without tea is a day without joy."
"Tea: the answer to most of life's questions."
"There's always time for tea."
"You can't get a cup of tea big enough or a book long enough to suit me."
"Tea tempers the spirit and harmonizes the mind, dispels lassitude and relieves fatigue, awakens thought and prevents drowsiness, lightens or refreshes the body, and clears the perceptive faculties."

Cup of tea. 

After tea. 

When a sub is silent,

They are either over thinking,
Mad as hell, falling apart,
crying inside,
or
All of the above.

You have to be gentle with a sub because they are made from the rib a sensitive creature they need to feel calm and safe til they feel protected.

They need compassion of a good leading hand that is willing to keep them safe 

The way you treat someone reflects so be careful how you treat someone you give crap prepare to get shit back they may not be around any more good people are hard to find and hard to replace.  Just be their for them be a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear wipe thier tears that all it takes because sometimes we do not have all the answers but it helps.  

“Whatever you give a sub, they will make greater. If you give them sperm, they give you a baby.. If you give them a house, they give you a home. If you give them groceries, they give you a meal. If you give them a smile, they give you their heart. They multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give them any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!”

Both ways ,

You deserve a calm love with someone who is good for your mental health and nervous system. 

Masculine energy protects 

Submissive energy heals 

Together, they Create Wholeness.

Growth it shows , They text their submissive. Ask them how their day is. Call them to hear their voice.
Take them on dates. When they have a problem they listen and figure out a way to solve the sub’s problems. They do not argue with their sub. It's the little things that separate a boy from a man. And a grown-up sub loves that.  But really for both sides of the stick. 

Submission does not mean weakness it means to even the strong speak up use your mind, show your feelings, you we are human both are.  

Know that two people are not perfect but it takes two people to come together, be imperfect through the mess but come back when it works on things together. Respond to things with peace. 

Dom also needs their sub just as the sub does that is a big difference and a good one. Two people really hold the keys in the dynamic relationship.Don't be fooled can't be the only one you need two for it to last long you need a team work and agreeing and two people learn from each other and grow a bond how this whole thing works.