Is what I wondered when I hopped onto this site looking for a diamond in the rough. I started my search to optimally find a Domme who I can trust, grow with, and who hopefully has similar tastes as me.
But I asked myself, “Who Actually Cares About Male Subs?” And so instead of putting my best foot forward, I decided to just look for a bdsm partner to practice safe bondage with instead.
I had the impression that all women on this site detested men due to the large quantity of men who send dick-pics, horny love confessions, and sloppy conversations starters.
I also had the impression that Male subs would get tossed aside like old shoes due to the fact most women on this site seem to be seeking Dominant men. So I really didn’t expect to find too many people who would give me the time of day.
But I began to talk to some people, trying to get to know a bit about them and meet some cool people. Heck, I even made a post about looking for a Vacbed in my area.
And from interacting with a several people by now, I finally have an answer to the title of this post.
“Who Actually Cares about Male Subs?
Apparently, a lot of people.
I’ve had numerous people politely and courteously interact with me, talk with me about our likes, dislikes, tastes and struggles, who really seem interested in learning about me and who I am.
And that was really cool.
- I’ve met a female Sub who found me an extremely cheap vacbed online if I’m interested, who also connected me with a Dom she knows near me to help me connect to the community.
- Another Sub introduced herself to me and let me know that I was welcome, and that she would be a virtual guide if I needed any help as a newbie.
- A Domme a world away who gave me some pointers on what other Dommes look for and are attracted to in a male Sub,
- And finally, a Dom fairly close to me who offered to help me build some momentum in the BDSM community. (And if all goes well, maybe I can try that Vacbed before the end of the year. Lol)
Yes I’ve had numerous Dommes ghost me, or simply tell me I’m, “Not their type,” though have never met me, though I’m assuming they rejected due to my age and/or tastes… But most of the replies I have received are at the very least, civil, if not a bit curt. ?
But I sit here hopeful. Knowing I’m fit, young and VERY excited to try new things.Though I haven’t found my Domme or partner yet, I hope to find them soon.
Fingers crossed. ❤️
So to sum it up, “Who Actually Cares About Male Subs?”
The coolest people, apparently.