The Culture that has been here all the time

 . . . there is an opposite of Santa Clause?

His name is Krampus.

There are supposed to be 8.025 billion (2023) people worldwide. The chance to meet your perfect match has never been better, especially since the world's people are connected as they never have before. Yet there are obstacles to this hopeful meeting: Distance, culture, language, and most of all, the interference created by nefarious perpetrators seeing the situation as a way to get money by fraudulent means.

You can overcome these barriers with the tools available: Auto translators, vetting software, facial identification, reputable websites with safeguards, and travel options that fit a budget.

Do not give up. Keep trying. Learn from your mistakes.

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There is a strange aspect to my personality: I Enjoy the descent into the "Deep and Dark December." When the winter solstice comes and goes, I get a little sad. Maybe I have Druid in my genes. Yes, Druids gather at Stonehenge to celebrate the solstices and equinoxes:

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Since my latest caregiver helper deal fell through, I have a new idea: My new plan to find a caregiver helper is to try to host a legal immigrant who will stay in my guest room, help me, and get a start on US Citizenship. FROM AROUND POLAND OR SCANDIVAIA WOULD BE BEST (family reasons).

I am taking a break from most other online activities. It takes away from the care I should be giving my wife. This is especially true when people play games with me. Letdowns, disappointments, and scams are all I experience these days.CUL

My wife's heritage is Welsh, Sicilian, and extreme northern Italy. Her grandma from near the Swiss border was bonder than blonde, and my wife got a good dose of her genes. As her caregiver, I discovered how much of her is covered with blonde hair and now wonder why she twizzed her blonde eyebrows out and put brown ones in their place. Her Celtic genes added to the look that manifested as she got older: darkening hair on her head only and blue eyes. Another thing she shared with my second wife's traits was a very feminine personality - I love that.

My preference for extremely blonde girls may be imprinted in my genes: my Polish grandma was very blonde, and thus, my mom was too. The very first girls I warmed up to were all blondes, starting around 12 years old. What is odd, perhaps, is what genes I inherited from my father: Dark Olive skin, deep hazel eyes, and chestnut hair. The Maygar look was in me, I was told. My mom and dad were artistic, which is probably why I have a brooding artistic personality. My Polish family was very musical. Grandpa had a band and played in bars like I did.

This is just a musing out loud, nothing more.

Jim

PS: My official birth certificate states James, but the Polish Parish version states Jacob. 

This coming Friday may be vital for my wife, and we may have help with her care.

A little makeup makes her happy when I tell her she is beautiful.

In a rare lucid moment, she says I love you in an aphasia-affected voice: a hug and a kiss. Treasured moments.

If I ask her if we are married, she says, "No."

Mmmmm. Let me see: Which applies to you? You make love. Love is made to you. You and your partner make love to each other.

Do you believe there is a distinction? If so, how do you think that happens? Explain how it pays out in your experience.

Sex can be nothing more than an act to procreate. Whether intentional or the result of an undisciplined act, the result is the same: more people worldwide. 

 ". . . while the emotion itself might be universal, the concept of romantic love is not entirely so; meaning, people across cultures may experience love, but how they express and perceive romantic love can differ." 

It is not my purpose to write about the vast complexity of the subject; it is only to tickle your imagination so you will give it some thought about it.

My first wife wanted an Ocelot when we went to Trefflich's pet store he didn't have one so he handed me a lion cub. Iwas way to much for me to buy so he said I'll flip for it double or nothing. 

I apologize that my blog has gotten boring, maybe because all days are the same for me aside from changes in the weather.