The Culture that has been here all the time

This coming Friday may be vital for my wife, and we may have help with her care.

A little makeup makes her happy when I tell her she is beautiful.

In a rare lucid moment, she says I love you in an aphasia-affected voice: a hug and a kiss. Treasured moments.

If I ask her if we are married, she says, "No."

Mmmmm. Let me see: Which applies to you? You make love. Love is made to you. You and your partner make love to each other.

Do you believe there is a distinction? If so, how do you think that happens? Explain how it pays out in your experience.

Sex can be nothing more than an act to procreate. Whether intentional or the result of an undisciplined act, the result is the same: more people worldwide. 

 ". . . while the emotion itself might be universal, the concept of romantic love is not entirely so; meaning, people across cultures may experience love, but how they express and perceive romantic love can differ." 

It is not my purpose to write about the vast complexity of the subject; it is only to tickle your imagination so you will give it some thought about it.

My first wife wanted an Ocelot when we went to Trefflich's pet store he didn't have one so he handed me a lion cub. Iwas way to much for me to buy so he said I'll flip for it double or nothing. 

I apologize that my blog has gotten boring, maybe because all days are the same for me aside from changes in the weather.

Significant developments in the history of the world that break was "This Changes Everything" within reason applying to everyday life.

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Some significant historical events that changed the world include: the invention of the printing press, the American Revolution, the Industrial Revolution, World War II, the Great Depression, the fall of the Berlin Wall, the Apollo 11 moon landing, and the COVID-19 pandemic, all of which significantly impacted society, politics, and technology on a global scale. 

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Socio-political organization, world travel, mass religions, and, in my opinion, the most significant?: "the personal information age."

Take everything before the internet and put it in the hands of people: Cellphone/Camera/Communication with its potential for nefarious uses, and life on planet Earth will not be the same as you probably realize.

Individuals' personal lives are exposed, government secrets are at risk, proprietary secrets are opened up, and Military capabilities and actions are no longer kept from ordinary people. There are no secrets anymore.

Hey guys, between antidepressants causing ED and Cialis countering it, you can learn to regulate the situation with careful thought and information on how the drugs work. The doctors can help you find the sweet spot, and you may figure out how to use both - find a balance.

What % of the eighteen-year-olds do you think are still virgins? (Your opinion I have no statistics)

 . .  .  for Christmas, I suspect, is this item in the picture:

Note it isn't taxed in Pennsylvania.

Hopefully, in your heart. All photos pixabay.co

Beautiful on the outside? We all lose our youthful appearance; even millionaires can only get so much cosmetic surgery. Sometimes, it makes them look worse.

Ease into your aging body with a warm heart.

The BDSM checklist is extensive, and when the percentage of what you are leaning toward, is a good beginning. Unfortunately, it can pressure newbies and the curious to feel compelled to plunge into the "life" when they rather ease their way in. So there can be interested men and women turned away at the gate. The liars and scammers are not so fussy. It is unfortunate that opportunists and manipulators sneak in and become pretenders.

The best way to enter is with ears and eyes wide open and having researched the lifestyle. The Cage has many helpful resources, but knowledgeable and careful interaction within candid conversations would be significantly beneficial to this end.

This is my honest statement:

Once introduced to BDSM I read and observed the popular websites and acquired a starting point. I discovered I had Kinky tendencies all along and so did my wife. I cannot say I was a natural Dom but my wife for certain was (before her ADA) a natural sub.

I had a brief BDSM lover that added immensely to my knowldge and I even got to practice some of the life style.

My wife's ADA (i.e. Bruce Willis) is advanced, no interest in the sexual intimacy we once had. She can behave more like a toddler - playing with dolls especially. 

I have had many a paid aide when I could afford them, so women visiting us is normal for her - irrelevent why they are here.

So if I was given the chance to continue my education in The Life style I would continue slowly - it is stalled at this time.

I have exhausted all my attempts to get caregiving help, but I will continue caring for my wife of forty years at the level of a nurse for as long as I can. If I were to acquire a BDSM companion, I would not expect her to do my caregiving job directly. She can help with running the home and enable me to seek the healthcare I now have postponed because I can't take my wife to my appointments.

As truthful as I can be Jim (Andron)