The Culture that has been here all the time

Dear Friends,

There is much going on here so far, but it's mostly good. It is like the old saying, "If you don't like the weather, wait; it will change."

I love lyrics and cliches; their meaning is often profound. A sapling tree survives because it bends in the wind and gets stronger. Forest fires destroy a forest (seemingly) only to have it return stronger. "What doesn't kill me makes me stronger."

This too shall pass  Wikipediahttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › This_too_shall_pass
This too shall pass is an adage about impermanence of Persian origin. It reflects the temporary nature, or ephemerality, of the human condition — that ...

The Bible is much more than a religious book. I use it because of its practical ancient wisdom, its revelation of human nature, and some of its beautiful, artful writings. So are the Koran and  . . . .

indian Vidas historical writing

from the web
They are derived from the ancient Indo-Aryan culture of the Indian Subcontinent and began as an oral tradition that was passed down through generations before finally being written in Vedic Sanskrit between 1500 and 500 BCE (Before Common Era).

China, Japan even ancient wisdom found in The Americas is here to help us

 A number of Native Americans or Original peoples believe in the gifts from the ancient Grandfathers they gave us: Love, Respect, Humility, Truth, Honesty Courage and Wisdom.

Each new birth gives a new entity, perhaps a sentient being, a chance to enjoy life. Each must find its own way to survive and leave a legacy to help the following generations.

Hello Friends,

This is an allegory. The Best plants I have ever had were the plants that started all by themselves.  Some seeds were from the previous year's garden, some were from the wind, and some the birds brought. They knew precisely when to germinate; they were adapted to my garden's soil and microclimate. And so it is with friendship.

Friends that grow spontaneously and even serendipitously have the finest roots in a relationship that can be found. They weather the storm better and are genuinely there for each other. Not like some people who often say or text, "I am here for you," but are they genuinely there for you?  True friends are there for each other through good and bad.

Politicians so easily say, "Our hearts and prayers go out to you," but what the people in need require is genuine empathy and help. Yes, we all must strive to be authentic.

 I reminded my grandson, who had a habit of being late when he promised to help us: "Let your yes be yes and your no be no." ¹

1 Matthew 5:37 King James Version (KJV)
But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.

Hello Friends,

I have been taught not to play a game if you can't afford to lose. This applies to gambling and Love. Still, with Love, I find taking a chance is always worth the risk. Life without Love is no life at all for me. 

When in Love, scents smell better, food tastes better, and even entertainment shared is better. Love helps when you need help. You help when your lover needs help. You are needed and wanted and have a purpose in your life.

Lives shared in Love are lives saved.

Hello Friends,

Straight loving sets the stage to explore together and experiment with what both lovers want.

Lover, my skin is rough and darker than yours. You are so fair. I worry the sun will harm you when you lie on the beach. When we are in our lover's chamber, I gently run my hands from your feet to your thighs front and back, and you feel like silky satin to me. It is magic how this makes me feel and how you relax and become warm. Then we kiss, and I whisper in your ear that you are a wonder to behold, and what you stir in me is no ordinary feeling. I remove your sheer black Camisole, and your lovely breasts are so sweet, the nipples erect and rosy pink, inviting me to kiss softly and then act like a suckling child: you move close to me and speak soft words that are more like the sounds of a purring kitten. Circumventing around your body, lingering at your soft sensuous stomach, I let your panties fall as I view your vagina in all its complex beauty and the fantastic way it affects me. We explore each other in sexual bliss until we become so charged as magnets that we join into one being of love and lover's bliss.

Explore and experiment and grow together: A faithful Dom will learn from his sub, not just impose his will blindly

My Dear Friends,

I appreciate you who read and responded to my blog. You replaced so many who played games with me and only saw me as a guy from whom to get money. Now, some of you have been responsive and helpful in finding my way in this evolving blog.  Sometimes, you have surprised me because your comments indicate people who have empathy and seem to like encouraging a person (like me) who needs positives.

Sometimes, the distance between us vanishes, and it is like you spoke to me here right in front of me. I enjoy seeing beauty, reading beautiful things, and enjoying your beautiful encouragement and encouragement. Thank You every one of you.
JH

Hello Friends,

I am such a good guy, and it has been a long time, but my wild, reckless, and lawless days ended in 1984. No more sins, no more drugs, no more alcohol, no more Rock and Roll (well, sort of). Running wild in the streets of a city, I am an angel now and not even a devil in disguise. 

I like wild women, but not too wild. Yes, I am stuck at home anyway. So it doesn't matter what I want, dislike, or don't do.

I have a mind and body that don't know when to give up, quit, or admit I am too old for fun now. 

Now, this is my mantra: Too old, not bold, sit down, big clown. Soon, you will be part of the ground and nowhere to be found. LOL

Hello Friends,

Many times in the last year, I found myself in a situation that didn't seem right, and they were incorrect. My gut feeling was right. I often said, "Let me sleep on that." Then, during the middle of the night, I woke up, tossed and turned, returned to the computer, and discovered I was correct. What did I learn? My intuition was right, but if I failed to obey my senses, I wound up taken in by a nefarious and devious person. 

A nefarious and devious person doesn't like it if you hesitate or especially tell them you need to sleep on it. I should have known better and learned vivid lessons: My gut is almost always right with its warning.

Since I was at a disadvantage being socially isolated in a new place to live, I was easy prey for scammers, con artists, and fraud perpetrators. I have learned my lesson well, yet I know time will tell. When I am in a lonely period, I am quietly desperate for a companion to engage with fully. I have to double my guard.

I am committed to caregiving and accept the condition I find myself in because I love the one I care for despite the cost for me in my personal life.

Hello Friends,

What do you like to taste on your lover: butter, honey, candy? Let's see what variety of tastes are used out there. Enter your favorites in the comments.

Hello Friends,

So, you are in a close relationship, and it doesn't matter what the character is beyond "close" or how you define it. In a disagreement, one of you or both are offended, or one of you violates the other's trust. You seek to resolve this situation amicably and as fast as it is prudent. Will one of you win and one of you lose? No. You both must win, or you both will lose. 

During my long years of relationship experience, I discovered that if I impose my solution because I claim to know best, it will cost me in the long run: the relationship suffers. The only real solution I have discovered is one in which we both win. How that is defined depends on those involved and the conflict. 

Both partners may have to give a little to gain a lot. If I impose my way and it damages the relationship, I lose, too. Have your priorities clear and communication truthful and accurate.

Let love win over all.

Hello Friends,

I THINK YOU SHOULD BE AWARE THAT INCEST IS LEGAL IN PARTS OF THE WORLD:

Additionally, no laws prohibit consenting relatives from having sexual relations in France, Belgium, and Luxembourg. Incest is also legal in Argentina, Brazil, India, the Ivory Coast, Japan, Latvia, South Korea, Thailand, and Turkey. In Spain, Netherlands, and Russia, consensual incest is fully legal.

Countries Where Incest Is Legal 2024
 
World Population Reviewhttps://worldpopulationreview.com › country-rankings

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Or is he a relative? In a family like ours spread out and not knowing all the members (legacy of a dysfunctional father), the people I can meet could be related without knowing that: in the last couple of years, my full brothers and I discovered two additional half brothers and their families. My dad was like Johnny Apple seed, only he used his sperm (no, LOL). So, like other families like ours, the chances of meeting a potential mate being related to us are a lot higher than zero (euphemistically). How can you tell who they are without using a DNA test?

Can you determine paternity without DNA testing for paternity?  Not positively. Paternity DNA testing is the only way to know for sure; however, there are tools that may help with providing insight into a possibility of paternity. 1. Date of Conception . . .

2. Eye-Color Test An eye-color paternity test shows how eye color and inherited-trait theory can be used to help estimate paternity.

3. Blood-Type Test A blood-type paternity test can also help eliminate a potential father or determine if paternity is probable

Fourth cousens may not share your DNA. Why does Ancestrydna say my sister is my cousin? 

Someone in this category is likely a brother or sister who shares both biological parents with you. In the rare situation that you have a half sibling who is also your first cousin, they may appear in this category too.Mar 28, 2022

 

Can I marry my sister by accident? Accidental incest is still illegal.

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In other words, incest is sexual contact between close blood relatives, including brothers and sisters, parents and children, grandparents and grandchildren, or aunts or uncles with nephews or nieces. Incest is a crime in all states, even if consensual by both parties.