Organized Chaos

Sooooo, I've been here on and off for 5 years now and have participated in many challenges. My favourite to date, was the dress shirt challenge. 

That's actually where my display picture comes from. (It's also the only picture of myself I've ever posted.) It was about 2 years into my stay here when the challenge was issued. I don't have the full original picture anymore, but I will post the display one below. 

I didn't own a dress shirt.....how was I going to participate? Green, Bun, and other ladies were posting fabulous pics in their dress shirts, I wanted to, too! 

So I dug deep and found one of my Dad's old firefighter dress blues and struggled that bad boy on. CLEARLY, he does not have the chest I have as that one button is holding that shirt together on a hope and a prayer!!

THE CHALLENGE: Post a picture in a dress shirt that makes YOU feel sexy! It can be seductively draped open, one or all buttons closed, in just a dress shirt..... You decide. 

The object is not to flash nudity all over Cage but to create a sexy photo that makes YOU feel sexy and good about YOURSELF.

PLEASE REMEMBER this is an adult site, so let's all be adults and keep the comments positive and respectful.

Those who know me know I'm a big advocate for loving yourself and the skin you're in. You don't have to have the "perfect body" by today's standards to look and feel sexy! 

EVERYONE can participate! Big or small, black, white, purple, pink, man, woman, other, scars, birthmarks, etc. It is truly about what  makes YOU feel sexy, so please join in.  Don't worry about others' opinions!!!

I want to see your creativity!! If you're not premium, post a picture on your profile and let us know!!

(Ps. Don't mind the paint specs on it, haha. we used them for paint shirts after he retired. I did the damn challenge, ok?! Don't judge me!)

I fekking love my office mate! She gets me through the day. When you work with the best, you strive to be your best. 

The morning went sideways fast and I finally got back to my office 2 hours later. I walk in and she starts blasting this song..... I had never heard it but Damn it's catchy!

"She gon' take it up the ah, like a ventriloquist (Ha, ha)" ?? that line had me dying. 

The ending videos to play next on YouTube had me dying. It suggested I listed to "Take me to Church" next!! ???

Never trust a mirror,

For a mirror always lies,

It makes you think that all you're worth,

Can be seen from the outside. 

Never trust a mirror,

It only shows you what's skin deep,

You can't see how your eyelids flutter, 

When you're drifting off to sleep. 

It doesn't show you what the world sees,

When you're only being you, 

Or how your eyes just light up,

When you're loving what you do.

It doesn't capture when you're smiling,

Where no-one else can see,

And you're reflection cannot tell you, 

Everything you mean to me. 

Never trust a mirror, 

For it only shows your skin,

And if you think it dictates your worth,

It's time you looked within. 

                                                     ~ Unknown

Just a friendly reminder to love yourself, and to be gentle as you are still a work in progress.  

To those that need to hear this today

You are SPECIAL.

You are BEAUTIFUL.

You are ENOUGH.

You are LOVED.

You MATTER!