Before you put that ring on her finger, take a moment to ask yourself if you’re truly ready. Marriage isn’t just about a wedding or vows it’s a lifelong promise to stand beside someone in every season of life.
Have you been completely honest with her? Are you free from old habits like entertaining exes, flirting, or hiding things? True commitment isn’t shown in words, but in consistent actions. Can you be her strength when life gets heavy? Will you stay loyal, love her fully, and give her the peace of knowing she’s your one and only?
If doubts or dishonesty still linger, you’re not ready. She deserves someone who can match her love, loyalty, and devotion without hesitation.
If that’s not you, let her go so she can find the person who truly will. Be real before you make promises you can’t keep.
Love isn’t about convenience, it’s about sacrifice. And when you’re ready, you’ll know because choosing her will feel like choosing forever.
~ Big Ole Tex