Noticing that people look down on and pick apart most if not all subjects that address a man getting satisfaction, happiness, contentment, or physical release. I think it’s because a man who is horny and distracted makes for the best customer. It’s bad for any business if a man is clear headed with a shut wallet. I’ve seen boobs, makeup and ass used to market cars, houses, burgers. And 86 cents of every consumer dollar is spent by women. So on the money side, it makes sense to keep me starved for emotional connection and sexual release. That’s what is best for social businesses.
Just facts: I’m a high value man. 6 figures. Veteran. Single father. Clean background. Upon showing up, make eye contact, pay for the date and speak my mind. I want to have more positive experiences.
lo and behold, I talk to 7 women through regular means. None are emotionally available or sexually up front. Open my phone and there are thousands of escorts, hookers, onlyfans girls, strippers etc etc.
I can’t help but think that with 50 billion a year spent on makeup, cosmetics and surgeries to enhance sexual Appeal, could be more of a reason for the objectification of women. Instead of just men egging things on.
tracking expenses:
Regular dating and apps in a 6 month period:
cost $3200
Result: mental health at risk, messy house, trust issues, lack of sleep, ladies show up late and time water.
Escorts and porn stars in a 6 month period
cost $2500
Result. Even sleep schedule. On time companionship. With physical needs met, my brain calmed down. Twice a week, a half naked woman cleaned my house, cooked a nice meal, and deepthroated me to sleep before leaving.
In addition the talk up was easier. I was asked for a std and background check. We talked politics and fun events. Went to some concerts with a hot date. It felt good to feel good.
With a looming 60 percent divorce rate. I don’t think I’ll ever again try to date or take a sub if it’s on me to provide and entertain.
I don’t have any “advice” or theories about everyone, just my personal experience. I’m feeling used, ignored, at risk, and degraded every time I try to date an American woman. Every time I have shared this, women point out what I could have done wrong. I think…..I think choosing to pursue American women is the root of the problem. Current divorce statistics support this, as does the fact that more and more men are outright leaving the country forever.
I no longer want to be happy with someone. I just want to be at peace. Or talking business. I want my moneys worth.