Thoughts of an 18 year old newbie

I'm new to the bdsm lifestyle and these are some tboughts I have about it and the website
1 month ago. Thu 12 Apr 2018 05:10:39 AM IDT

1 month ago. Sat 31 Mar 2018 05:20:14 AM IDT

Lol Sir you can see you wild hair even tho the picture is unclear?❤

So lucky to get time with my Sir and wanted to share this happy feeling with everyone?

1 month ago. Wed 28 Mar 2018 06:47:01 AM IDT

Found this website online, has a variety of cute designs for everyday wear and a lot of customise options including exact size

Idk how they turn up but they seem affordable and you can find what your looking for, from something subtle and choker style to something like a kitten collar with spikes everywhere and says "insert name here" on a engraved tag

Has real leather , vegan leather , and more

Mostly not for play but some can be used for light play

Get yourself something cute, treat yourself. Or get something for someone special who knows its up to you lol 

Just thought I would share this✌

1 month ago. Sat 24 Mar 2018 04:51:53 AM IDT

I got my wisdom teeth out today so im pretty out of it, I'm a crying mess thinking of anything that could go wrong in life or different things about myself that I hate. I'm worried I'm not good enough...


But Sir helped,

he doesnt know how much he does help


 just talking and calming me down .... It helps so so much

And I cant even tell you whats exactly wrong

Because I'm a mess

But for some reason your still here...

So Thank you Sir, for everything 

It means so much too me

Everyday you amaze me and I fall for you more and more 

Thank you Sir ❤



2 months ago. Wed 07 Mar 2018 04:25:35 AM IST

My thoughts go a mile a minute and I cant say what I'm thinking

I can't put how you make me feel into words

I can't say how amazed I am that we work so well together

I can't put into words how greatfull I am to be yours

I can't say how happy you make me

I can't say how comfortable I am with you

And i definitely can't put my feelings for you into words

The easiest way for me to sum this all up and hope you understand is to say

Thank you Sir?

3 months ago. Thu 22 Feb 2018 12:10:17 AM IST

big or small ,young or old, skinny or thick, curvy or not, muscular or weak, bdsm is for everyone 

3 months ago. Tue 13 Feb 2018 08:03:10 AM IST

So I'm so excited that I couldn't wait till morning to write this. 

I've accepted my first ever dom and I'm so happy, he's kind, sweet, funny, and kinky in all the right ways ? 

We've talked since my very first day on this site and hes helped me so much already I know he'll continue to help me learn and grow as his sub. 

I normally post advice but I wanted to share this feeling of happiness I have right now with everyone. Ive written this fast and very late at night and I'm not writting much because I want to wake up early to tell him good morning before he goes to work?


P.s. sir if your reading this I'm sorry I'm being so cheesy lol

3 months ago. Fri 09 Feb 2018 08:02:04 PM IST

 So my advice from what ive have learned so far is #1 dont be scared to ask for advice, most people will help and give good advice just look at their profile first to make sure they have experience. 

#2 learn how to spot a fake or instadom or scamers. Always look at profiles before responding, you can see how long they have been on the site and all the information about them. If they don't have much information I would be cautious. Also if your still unsure because they are new to the site wait until their free trial is up to see if they stick around or were just trying it out.

#3 make friends and connections with other people, the group chat is a great place to meet people to talk to and most everyone is friendly. These people can help and most want to help you with your questions

#4 have fun?

3 months ago. Thu 01 Feb 2018 08:52:40 PM IST

      So I joined the website a few days ago and so far its been amazing.

Ive always been interested in bdsm but have never acted on it until joining the site. Ive tried being vanilla but there's just something missing and I realized this is what was missing from it and my life.

So first off I was overloaded with information but thats great I love learning. Mostly everyone is helpful and nice in helping me learn and make friends.

There have been a few creeps but not as many as I originally thought there would be.

I'm just glad there is something online like this to help me learn and make some friends along the way?