Setting The Scene
Chapter 2 - Collared
© L 2025
Our BDSM and DD/lg lifestyle is part of us, our daily routine that we transition between, as well as accepting that we are both adults with a life outside the lifestyle we share. We met years ago at a special BDSM organised event in our town and quickly hit it off. We always said it was destiny we were meant to meet and find each other. That person who enriches your life, makes you want to dance in the rain, sleep in on cold days and go exploring on warmer ones.
A year after we officially became Dominant and submissive he gave me my first collar. Something conventional and vanilla, a necklace with the infinity symbol, and engraved on the back was his initial. At the time I thought my world was complete. Two years later we moved into our home together. A vanilla couple to most, and to a select few, who we shared the true dynamic of our relationship with- fellow kinksters. It wasn't long after, that he asked me to wear his collar permanently, forever. Our collaring ceremony was a more informal affair, with just our 2 best friends, and a mutual dominant friend officiating, to guide the ceremony forward, the local BDSM club owner, and host of many munchies, who actually introduced us in the first place. We were both so nervous, and I remember before it started thinking that it may have been the first and last time I really saw him anxious. But that changed the moment it started.
Sir spoke first, addressing our friends, looking back on our life since we met. I have never felt more in love, more in awe of anyone. His promise to me was filled with depth, trust, and of one half of a person being made whole, by the commitment they were entering into. Then he placed my collar on me. It was the first time I had seen it. I felt completely overwhelmed, but he held me, making sure I knew he was there, and always would be as he locked it on me. Then I made my promise to him, my owner forever! They were the easiest words in the world to speak, filled with my love, devotion and reverence, straight from my soul that now belonged to him, my Sir, my world. It took me weeks to come back down to earth from the high of receiving his collar. But slowly our lives returned to normal. Well, our 'normal' at least.