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I have been writing my thoughts for ages for my eyes only. Speaking with others here I found they blog for
many different reasons. Some similar to mine.
Some I can relate to, others not so much. But underneath it all is the vulnerability in sharing one’s thoughts with a community that they feel deeply connected to. Sharing their journey, their trauma, their fantasies takes courage and I applaud each and every one of them. For me I had been thinking about it and my wonderful dominant nudged me and told me I should. He said that sharing my story may help someone else, who like me struggles with past trauma.
Everyone’s story is different, but underlying there is a thread that binds us together. Take solace in knowing you are not alone and there are others out there that have shared experiences. My blogs, though deeply personal are meant to bring light and hope and to open honest discourse.
1 month ago. Wednesday, March 11, 2026 at 11:09 AM

ADHD makes me say yes to things before thinking it through. My anxiety has me rehearsing conversations and scenarios in my head that never happen and the combination has turned me into a people-pleaser with a serious guilt complex. 
I understand I am a bit much to handle. Or people think I am playing games. 
I’m not I just have a serious sense of inadequacy from being torn down and being told I am not enough. From years of being treated like an option, an afterthought, that I am being tolerated.

I need to remind myself daily that I am not an option, I am worthy of being chosen.

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