Having a wank sounds less loaded and more fun than masterbation.
For me having a wank is at an uncomfortable intersection.
road works,🚧
road cones🚦
road workers in hi vis.🦺
There is a
⚒️ man down in the hole in the road working and workers watching him.
Leaning on a shovel rolling a ciggie. 🚬
The second is sitting on their esky 🧊 drinking from a large water bottle 🧉Another is adjusting the radio station 📻
Fourth is shouting and the man in the hole can't quite hear. 📣
And the last is sitting in the digger with engine off also shouting. 🏗
And bonus one with the clipboard 📋
So let me introduce you around,
🧉 Jo they are the testosterone from gender affirming care, they need this wank and the libido is shooting thru the roof.
🚬 Jeannette is rolling a ciggy, she is sick of the male gaze, but also torn because thanks to Jo is now finding men attractive for the first time.
📻 DJ is finding it hard to know what is turning them on and how to keep it.
🏗 Jim is finding toys confusing because of triggers, guilt and how much fun they are.
📣 Virginia's shouting but finding it hard to stay present in the body and hear what the body is saying.
📋 Clippy is saying there isn't time for this.
Now for the barriers
🚧 gender and body dysphoria
🚦Past trauma
🫠 conservative upbringing
🦺Being in a afab body with shame
This is the road works from hell.