When life takes away the whip and gives you lemons, make her lemonade.
When life replaces her drive, her "her-ness", submit by carrying some of weight. And remember it's temporary.
When life makes her question herself, remind her that delegating to her Sub is well within her role.
When life tells her she's unworthy, remind her she's strong. Remind her you're hers. And she, yours.
When life gives her more than she can handle, show her you submitted because you wanted to, not because you are weak. Show her you're powerful side again. The Leader. Pick her up and carry her if necessary.
When life interrupts your precious dynamic, remember why it works. Remember how amazing it is. Remember how amazing SHE is. And get to work.
Because it's worth it.
When life takes away the whip and gives you lemons, make her lemonade. Use every single lemon till life runs out.