As of late, our formal contract has been the topic of discussion at home. All of the terms and conditions have been discussed at length, of course, long before we decided to enter into a 24/7 D/S dynamic. But a formal contract is wonderful to have for a number of reason. Done correctly, it makes a beautiful display piece and lovely reminder of the commitment and relationship of D/S (sort of like a marriage certificate), it’s a handy reference tool (we have a LOT of rules, some that are only on alternating weeks, we cover expectations of behavior in private and public, we cover corrections and rewards, etc), and it gives each couple (or triad et al) the opportunity to discuss things that might not otherwise come up. For example; verbiage that might feel offensive to one but is generally accepted vernacular, ask questions that only occur because of a certain clause in the contract, etc.
Contracts also offer protection to all parties involved and all parties involved should have a hard copy of their own if you are not married and living together.
Ive had such fun doing this that I’ve considered offering this as a service here with ink and calligraphy, hand decorated in the way of your choosing. If you think this might be something you’d be interested in, please let me know!
