Daddy has always been very protective of me. We been married 7 years, both been divorced. Daddy had a hard time in his first marriage because he thought "wives" act like wives...and to do any kind of kink was for loose women you found on the side.
I sure had my work cut out for me to get him to understand that you can have a wife, like me 😄 and have all the kink you could fantasies with.
Was it easy? No, not at all. in the earlier years we would do some basic BDSM and he loved it-but he felt this was to good to be true. He would get to overly ambitious and turn me off. Thats where some of the struggle was, we both would drawback. He would tell me thats the sex he was starving for! Daddy has a jealous side that would cause trouble - he would be afraid I would leave him.
6 years forward I would say I wish I had let my guard down and had more heart to heart talks with him so we could have gotten to where we are today sooner. I think what worked was showing him blogs about how to be a great DOM and us sitting at the computer looking up kink and talking about what he liked what I liked. Obviously it comes down to communication. I had to tell him 1,000 times the sex we have is not easy to just go out and jump in new with someone else. It takes trust to be that vulnerable with someone and in fact now that we have this in our lives its a much stronger bond. Now he sees for himself and he has turned into a very confident and cocky guy about his girl. He KNOWS I'm only his!
Don't get me wrong its not just the kink that keeps us together. We read each others mind , we like the same things and we are truly best friends. He is the kind of guy that gets up in the morning wondering what he can do to make my day great! In turn I want to do the same for him!
You ever see that cartoon with the two squirrels chip and dale? "After you, Chip" ...."No no after you Dale".... that is many times how it is for the two of us - outside of the bedroom and play.
Yes, it can be tricky flowing between Husband/Wife & Daddy/Baby girl but like anything the more practice it leads to a lifestyle. For any reader that doesnt get this Daddy/girl fetish ....it's ok...you don't need to...but for the curious ...Its a release for me to have someone else be responsible. Being the oldest it was natural to be overly responsible. He picks out my clothes, gives me a short list of what he wants done for the day, he works I stay home. Soon he is going to open up a school room where I will read blogs and summarize them so he doesn't have to spend his time reading.
This is a win because it keeps me focused on what Daddy thinks is important and I dont get distracted with grown up stuff. Now you know, Daddy is also the principal and plenty of discipline will be administered! I love the new dresses he ordered me with the frilly bottoms. For now I do have to write sentences out on paper but he said something about there will be a chalkboard where sentences would be done. Recess will NOT be what most vanilla thinkers think recess is. Nope, at daddy's school its going to be a fuck machine. That will be called "Recess". I'm getting excited about our homeschooling!
If you are a Daddy's Girl I would like to be friends and have classmates Daddy approves of and read your blogs!