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The Spicy Librarian's Hot Take

Welcome to my cage.

My name is Kimmy, and I am a submissive with a strong need for containment. Kink for me isn't just play; It is a way of life that helps me navigate the world with my AuDHD. My needs are specific and non-negotiable: I need impact, consistent dominance, and a partner who understands that my perky "on" state is not my only state. I am an open book. I will be honest about my needs, my history, and what I’m looking for. In return, I require the same honesty. If all you want is a quick hookup or to get photos, that’s fine, just say so. Don't waste my time with a slow fade or empty promises of a future that isn't real. If you are a Dominant who understands that true power is found in communication and care, not just a title, then you're in the right place. I am looking for someone who can hold me with a firm hand and a soft heart, someone who sees my vulnerability not as a weakness but as a key to a profound connection. My authenticity is my boundary and filter.
3 weeks ago. Monday, December 29, 2025 at 11:35 AM

That work is finished. What comes next is application.
Sanctuary was the work of learning how to stay in my body without bracing for impact. Not performing safety. Not borrowing it. Building it.
The outcome wasn’t strength. It was steadiness.
This is what had to exist before anything else could.


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