We all know those people that say "when i have kids they will never do _______". Of course, fast forward to when they have kids one day. Often the very things that were loudly proclaimed as NEVER have suddenly happened right before their eyes.
For example, my Uncle was determined that his kids would never play sports on Sunday. And if a game was on Sunday his kids would not be allowed to play because they had to go to church. Again, fast forward a few years and his son is involved in many sports through the year. And you guessed it, Sunday is prime time for sportsball games.
So, why am I talking about sports all and my cousin on my blog HERE? No, there is no kinky twist (and if there is, I dont know about it. Its my cousin! Lol) However, I think the lesson is applicable. I know personally on my kink journey I have had many moments of "no way, not happening, yeah right" that turned into something I enjoy. I remember when the thought of needles made me uncomfortable.. but then I paired off with the right person to bring me that experience. I havent done it since, but i am also not opposed to it either.
**Change and growth are not bad things. Truly. It is also ok AND healthy to have limits that you won't cross. Not all limits are meant to be changed. **
I guess I just want to encourage you to be willing to try the new thing. Be willing to think differently. In the hands of the right person, you can do or be things that you never thought possible. 💖 (or never would have admitted you wanted to be a part of)
