I’ve noticed a recurring pattern where men initiate conversation and then quickly switch to asking for sexual photos or videos.
I want to be clear about how I handle that. I’m happy to share a face photo or hop on a brief video chat to establish that I’m real. Beyond that, I don’t provide sexual content. If that’s what you’re looking for, keep scrolling. If you want to get to know me as a person, we can talk like two humans.
If you’re curious about my kinks, they’re listed on my profile.
What I’m not available for is being reduced to a source of entertainment without negotiation or consent. If that’s your approach, you’re going to be sorely disappointed.
If your concern is whether I’m sexually open or sex-positive, the answer is yes.
If your way of testing that is pushing for sexual content early, we’re not compatible.
I don’t withhold intimacy as leverage, and I don’t give it as proof.