This is something I've been accused of because of my loyalties. And I'm trying not to take offense. They said it properly, it's how they felt, and they are welcome to thier feelings and their own judgment. I feel they made one; however, I could be wrong. And they were polite on leaving. Yet that is tantamount to calling me a liar, which I have issues with. I live on radical honesty. I have to say, though, that I understand the thought. The rules my husband and I have are ones I won't trespass on, and that looks suspicious. My husband controls my pictures. That is an agreement we have. That is how this works. We know this from when. I did internet pin-up work. You can’t find me anymore, I'm too old. (However, it was the internet, so if you do find them, please share with me.) I thought about it, the offense that I took, and decided to write…as i do for everything else. The person who said it was polite enough to use a proper ‘I feel…’ statement to their cousin and take responsibility for their own insecurities. And that was where I realized exactly how sensitive I am to being called a liar. So much of my life has been given over to others insisting on my reality. If you want to know my reality, ask, and I'll tell you. However, don't tell me I'm a liar for it. I appreciated how this person handled it. Because I know people are reading, my husband is my life. And that position is not easily earned. He is the holder of my leash. (ok that makes me smile) We are finally replacing my collar and leash. It's been years. He says we’ll get a temp, then a better one in time. And that's ok, the one I want is…well, expensive to us. (as I'm sure you know).
We’ll be getting a black one with blue lettering (he looked at black lettering because I don't generally do color) that says ‘NOT YOURS’ and a chain leash. At least I think I can't decide on the chain or leather leash. The one I would have, if we had the money, is a custom-made collar and leash of platinum and sapphires. Leash of the same material and stones. Hell, I don't think my old leather collar would have fit me anymore anyway, so a new one is great.