“I’ll keep digging
till I feel something”
-stinkfist by Tool
A Feeling.
Physical, Mental,
Emotional,
I’ll take all three!
Some people love the sensation of only “good” feelings and some people cannot tolerate “bad” feelings and may want to be numb from these feelings and can use sex to do such, then there’s the other side; using sex to feel. I crave the STIMULATION. Don’t we all here? Well I’ll agree! And what’s even more particular to delve down into is this thing of ours we call BDSM bc I personally believe that bdsm begs or commands (depending on ur point of view lol) the question of is there really such a thing as a “bad” feeling” or is it all just a combination of what we are taught to perceive and what we think we know? What we learn, what we gain, So then why do some people love pain? answer is the same: Perspective? Conditioning? Our current Pedagogy?
Perhaps perhaps, perhaps....
One can also numb with pain I suppose but still, to live completely in the vanilla of life lacks luster like listless limp
dicks, so pointless 😊
but
bdsm lends spice to the mixture🔥
I love to feel
And
I think that I love sex so much bc it’s an amazing medium for experiencing varied, intensifying feelings on multiple levels. And I can choose how I want my sex to be n the feelings I create through testing my limits, and using more than just my physical perception means I am not limited here, fetish frees me. Sex let’s me FEEL and HEAL, play out my dream or my gravest fear. Our biggest asset in this community is flipping n switching, but constantly expanding, exploring and redefining our feelings. To feel OUT LOUD speaks and I can become aroused by physical stimulation or a mental thought or even an emotion like love but the combination of all three gives me such intensity!
Sex connects for us like
Spokes on a wheel,
All connected out to what we Feel
♥️💋