Name' sake

Do something you've never done before.

Yep, that's it - just do something you've never done before.

1 - Tell us what it was

2 - Explain any feelings it might have generated

3 - How hard was it for you to come up with something?

This is an exercise I came up with a few years ago to help those I mentor get "unstuck".

I've seen overall positive results.

It surprised me how difficult some of them found this exercise to be, but I suppose shouldn't have, lol.

You have to keep at it, and some interesting revelations can rise to the surface 😉

Happy Friday peeps 🍻🌹

1: When did you lose your virginity?

18 (how many years till I can re-claim it?)

2: Rough sex or soft sex?

Yes

3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?

"Unusual"? 🤔 I would have to say no

4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex?

Lol

Um 🤔 middle of a creek, middle of the day.

I'm adventurous and very spontaneous so there's quite a few "weird" ones

5: Favorite sex position?

Yes

6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive?

Dom

Butt ☝️

Being submissive to the "right" one can be quite fun too 😏

As role switching play but not enough that I'd call myself a switch.

7: Have you ever had any one night stands?

Yeth

8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor?

Yes

9: Have you ever had sex in a public place?

Yes (many)

10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?

Nope (not that I know of anyway)

11: What does your favourite underwear look like?

A heap in the corner

12: How often do you have sex?

Does reading about it count?
 
13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with?

😑

14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

Definitely giving. Receiving rarely does much for me honestly. Often times getting her off in itself gets me off.

15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex? 

Gas (not expounding)

16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?

Never really associated music with sex
 
17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow sex?

//

18: Are you into dressing up for sex?

I did once - fulfilling a cnc fantasy

Love it when she does tho 😍
 
19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?
Yes
20: If you could have sex with any celebrity right now, who would it be?

Oh ah, what's her name 🤔 played black widow - I can never remember her name

21: Have you ever had a threesome?

Oh yeah

22: Do you/would you use sex toys?

Sure

23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture?

Me?? Nooooo

24: Would you have sex with your best friend?

No comment

25: Is there anything you do after sex?

Wait

26: Something that will never fail to get you horny?

I was once told a stiff breeze could make me horny.

Probably sun dresses 😍

27: Early morning sex or late night sex?

Yes

28: Favorite body part on the opposite sex?

Yes

29: Favorite body part on the same sex?

Their back as they are leaving

30: Do you watch porn?

Yeppers

*I came to the game late

Butt ☝️

Thank you for the challenge,  t'was fun 🙂

Some people believe in the world of astrology

(Myself included)

Some signs match well, some signs don't.

I don't really know why/what/how such things could be

Butt ☝️

In my own life experience,  there seems to be truth to it.

Imma crab 🦀

My best match is a Scorpio ♏️

(Though they are evil)

((But omg so much fun!))

My worst is Aries and Sagittarius ♐️

If you care to share your own thoughts/beliefs/experiences - please feel free

And now for your listening enjoyment,  some random song I've never heard before

👇

Expected a different song, didn't you?

So I got to thinking about my weenie today.

"Mini me"

There is such a thing as "penis envy", right?

I mean, could it be the ones with tubes sticking out of their genitals are the superior gender?

Or is it the ones with holes? 🤔

The tube seems to fit quite nicely into the hole.

*please note - I mean no disrespect to any fluidity

I've often wondered what it would be like to have a hole instead of a tube 🤔

Do females often wonder what it would be like to have a tube? 🤔

I will pray for you little one

I will pray with you

I will pray

We are stardust searing across the night sky

We are sojourners against the dare to try

We are dreamers and soul screamers

Daring to dance

And willing to die

For you I will

For you I cry

Spurred by a recent query -

I'm sure you get the inference,

You shrew you!  ?

You are powerful in the "real world", aren't you?

Or maybe weak and seemingly insignificant.

But you're running, always running.

Oh how you long to be caught!

Don't you?

You no longer want to have to have the fortitude to face the prevailing winds.

What does it mean to be "caught"?

To be "tamed"?

"Quiet the mind" is a common way to put it, right?

You need to reveal and repent your transgressions  - a whip lash, a binding rope cutting in to your flesh, a slap, a denial . . .

How it replenishes your weary soul, that heap of you, collapsed into their comforting, reassuring arms as the last of the orgasm spasms slip away.

Almost as predictable as the rising sun, in just a matter of time - you lace up your running shoes and head out once again.

You have to.

* * * *

Must meet all the specified qualifications listed, within the confines of the audience of this site/magazine/newspaper/bathroom wall.

* * * *

A word, a whip, a wand -

A wink or a fail to blink,

"I'm sorry Daddy"

"Good girl"

"Yes Mistress"

"Good boy"

etc.

Why has it come to this?

Beater/beaten

Chaser/chastened

The few that are "different", need "different", to feed, to feel, to heal.

It is the deeper thinkers, the deeper feelers, that make up this community of "outcasts", of "misfits", of the curious and weird.

I know, I am one of them.

A switch that flipped long ago, or maybe yesterday,

But flipped it will stay.

Do not attempt to remove your aches, your pain, your odd in the eyes -

For it is these very things that stand you apart from the mundane crowd, and enable you to reach higher heights than most.

Thank you all, I'll see you again next Sunday

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I mean seriously, would the world suffer without it??

Excerpt from "Bustle" -

Sex & Relationships

The Surprising Origins Of The Term “Blow Job”
And why it’s called that when there’s no blowing involved whatsoever.
by Gabrielle Moss
Feb. 4, 2015
 
Human beings have probably been performing oral sex on each other for as long as we’ve had genitals and mouths, but somehow, we’ve never quite come to a consensus on what exactly we want to call it — and our many terms for it reveal more than our urge as human beings to give nicknames to everything that we love: They also reveal our confused cultural attitudes toward the sex act itself. Is it funny or serious? Frivolous or important? And, as every confused middle schooler has probably wondered, why is it called a blow job when there’s no blowing involved?

 
Here, the stories behind the five oral sex terms below show just how many factors influence the way we describe the act.

1. Blow Job
The most common and commonly understood oral sex term in the world didn’t even come into use until some time after the first World War. In fact, even though “fellatio” is a Latin-derived term — taken from “fellatus,” which means “to suck” — it didn’t come into popular use until 1894, when sexual researcher Havelock Ellis used it in one his clinical works on sexuality. The roots of the term “blow job” began a bit earlier than this, however — in the 17th century, to be exact, when to “blow” meant to bring someone to orgasm. In the same time period, a “blowsy” meant an unkempt woman (fans of history and/or Les Miserables may recall the work options that were available to such women during this time and draw their own conclusions).

 
The term “blow” wasn’t applied specifically to fellatio, however, until 1930, when we saw the first recorded use of it in a pulp novel called Nell Kimball: Her Life as an American Madam. It was also featured in a popular underground poem that circulated in 1948, “The Platonic Blow,” and is about exactly what it sounds like. But while some claim that the term is derived from Victorian prostitute slang referring to performing oral sex as giving a “below-job,” the first recorded usage of “blow job” was in a Tijuana Bible — a type of comic book that depicted popular cultural figures engaged in explicit sexual acts — printed in 1948, which featured one McCarthy-era male politician telling another, “You give such good blow jobs.” And with that, we never looked back, America.

... Except, obviously, to debate whether “blow job” one or two words: The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language says it’s one, while Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary and Oxford English Dictionary say it’s two, so feel free to style it however you want.

And more fun reading ?

 
2. Giving Head
This term for performing oral sex was dubbed in the 1950s, possibly as part of the era’s boom in sexuality. This would probably explain why the only place you’ve encountered this terminology is in the work of people who were actually young in the ’50s, like these songs by Leonard Cohen (recorded in 1974) and Lou Reed (1972). (Though Prince, that rapscallion, was still using the term in 1980, in the song “Head.”)

The phrase has, however, marched on in a new form: the slang “giving brain,” which you may remember as that lyric that grossed you out while you were innocently trying to sing along to T.I.’s “Whatever You Like” in 2008.

3. Eating Someone Out
Much like its fellow Latin-derived sex term, “fellatio,” “cunnilingus” itself didn’t come into popular use until 1887 (and it has nothing to do with the idea of “cunning” — it literally translates to “lick vulva”). Specific terms for performing oral sex on women didn’t really take off until the early 20th century, and suddenly, we were working with dozens of euphemisms, from “pearl diving” to “sneezing in her satchel.” The most enduring of the era’s terms for cunnilingus, however, became “eating out.”

 
4. Muff Diving
Though “muff” has been a slang term for vulvas since at least the 1690s, the term “muff diver” didn’t turn up until 1935, the end of the First Golden Age of Cunnilingus Nicknames.

5. Going Down
The etymology on this term is sketchy — many people first heard this phrase in Alanis Morrissette’s 1995 “You Oughta Know,” though obviously the former Angst Mistress General did not invent the term. No one seems to quite agree about when it came into popular usage, but it’s undeniable that it has become the oral sex term of choice over the past decade or so — the term “go down on" brings up 30,400,000 Google search results. Although it’s not universally appealing, it’s the closest we’ve come to an all-purpose, non-gross, not humiliating oral sex term, which could account for its growing popularity.

 
Morning peeps ??

How's everyone doin?
 
 

"To be with a masochist you must hate them with all the love you can muster"

The Cresent moon was set to swoon

the trappings of the coming fray

To catch a fever I pulled the lever

and watched your head roll away

Mornin peeps ?

☕️