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And another thing!

I hope those that are here to exploit and victimize the most vulnerable, find their way to this post. This is a message to you. 

You are not welcome here. There is a whole community of people here, commited to our values. As long as you are doing your thing, I will keep doing mine. I will be using my platform in any way I can to educate and mentor and I know there are others doing the same. This is not a collection of soft targets and easy marks. They are people, people that will put you out of business. 

Go get a real job!

I cannot begin to express my frustration with fraud and exploitation of male subs. I realize that it is an issue that can affect all, regardless of role or gender, but nearly every male submissive I've met has been victimized, or at least has some experience with a prospective  Domme that attempted to defraud them. 

Why are sub males a more vulnerable to such activity? 

1. There is a hugely disproportionate amount of male submissives readily eager for a dominant female partner than there are females looking for subs. 

2. The professional industry has created unrealistic expectations of what Femdom women want and what real FLR relationships look like.

3. Social stigma makes male subs more vulnerable and sensitive to "outing". This creates conditions for them to be prime targets for blackmail. 

I find the victimization of subs to be a particularly egregious and despicable act but I can do little to change this. I share these personal opinions in the hopes that knowledge will be power. A healthy D/s dynamic requires mutual trust. Subs and slaves have rights; to privacy, to trust and to protect themselves. Know your risks, demand respect and protect yourself. You are entitled to it.