Bellona

dom female

I've been involved with kink and the community off and on for 15+ years, and the Upstate NY community for over a year. I love the community here and it is rapidly becoming home.

I love everything about BDSM; the vulnerability, the expression, the freedom, the journey one takes with others, the thrill...I love it all.

I am most interested in D/s, bondage, sensory and impact play. I love all forms of impact play. Most of my interests require physical contact so it is unlikely that a virtual or long distance arrangement would give me what want. However, I am still interested in getting to know others in the community and am generally willing to chat. I would define myself as a Sensual Dominant. I have also been described as a Mommy type (not mommy roleplay) but as in a nuturing and caring authority figure. I'm also a bit of a disciplinarian and somewhat strict. I really enjoy service oriented submissives but have really high standards for conduct, maturity, obedience, loyalty, discipline and respect. I very much enjoy the bond that develops between a Domme and sub. I care very deeply for my subs and have great respect for the role they have given me.

I am most attracted to the most submissive and humblest of men. I look for genuine and natural submission as opposed to switches or tops that want to just try this out to fulfill a fantasy. It is a lifestyle for me and I take it seriously.

I have previously been very involved in the community, particularly with events, and I'm looking forward to new experiences and meeting new people. I occasionally teach classes and workshops for kink and D/s relationship dynamics. Some of them include sensory play, caning and several focusing on FLRs and I co-lead a local group.

I am not interested in hookups or casual sexual play so don't message me asking for it. I recently lost my collared submissive under tragic circumstances and the sudden loss, in addition to some other life changes, has made me appreciate my kink support network and the local kink community more than ever before. Couldn't thank you all enough.