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5 years ago. December 7, 2018 at 4:13 PM

Having a family and a spouse who don't understand why you need to be a little is hard. You have to keep a tight lock on your emotions and deny yourself what you need. I have been living this way for about a year when I found out I had an inner little. 

I have tried to explain it to my spouse but everytime I bring it up it ends in an argument with him saying he shouldn't have to change. Having three kiddos makes things a wee bit more complicated than no kids. 

I am so tired of trying to be the adult at ALL times in my life. With my hubby, kids, my mom, my sister I am the one they turn to for advice, but there is no one for me to lean on the way I need to. 

Onlinedomguy​(dom male) - It is really hard when you feel like you understand what you need and reach out to someone you love and who loves you and have them reject it. I know how that feels and I understand the frustration and confusion it causes. I have no idea about your situation and his. I do think how these kinds of conversations, approaching someone about something you have thought about a great deal but may be a completely knew idea to him can go off the rails depending on how it is handled. It also could be he is not someone who would want the responsibility of being the Daddy. Not all of us have the where with all to take on such a role. I think you have to desire it equally. You may want to think about the approach you took and see if maybe there is another way to reach out to him. If you ever wanted any ideas or feedback - message me I would be happy to help if I could.
5 years ago

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