Daddy Issues

Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - The two of you really seem to be all over the board on this one. From my reading he doesn’t appear to be the Daddy you’re looking for either. I think it’s always going to be difficult bringing others into a marriage. You’re both going to have to contend with jealousy and hurt feelings. Communication here is paramount. Don’t let this break you. Make sure you both tell each other everything, no secrets.

But it really seems like the two of you need to figure yourselves out...probably before bringing others into your relationship.

Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - Because at that point you’re messing with other people’s lives and feelings.

Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - I saw your edit and I hope you don’t think you “rubbed me wrong”. What I said was meant purely as constructive criticism. Nothing personal at all meant by it, nor did I mean to give you a “slap on the wrist” so to speak. I just meant this is a big thing, a big decision that can affect more lives than just yours and your husbands. It may require you both to take a step back and really figure things out.

I apologize if what I said felt harsh.