WARNING THIS MAY OFFEND SOME
So searching for a Daddy is way harder than it looks. You have to weed through the insta-daddies.
Term: Insta-Daddy--- A so called Daddy Dom who immeadiately refers to himself as Daddy and you as babygirl. Who expects to be obeyed without building trust and who pushes the sexual aspect.
That defined. I am so freaking tired of men expeting submission within like five minutes of chatting with them. They keep bringing up sex even after explaining that when I am little I am not interested in that. I have a hubby for those needs. I explain that I want to build trust first become friends and go from there. but Noooo they demand to have naughty pictures sent and demand to tell them all sorts of personal things. Like they ask if you are wet, or if you want their cock. I mean COME ON!!!!!!
If I wanted to step out and go fuck someone I could do that with any dude walking down the street I don't like that just because I am a little men think they can run over me. To be fair those who haven't done the proper research don't know any better. But I am one of those littles/submissives who only give my submission to someone who has earned it. I am honest to a fault so that makes a lot of people mad that I don't do what they want just because they told me to.
I HATE when people take advantage of people. I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship and it is not fun, that is why I am so picky about who I submit to. I was burned and refuse to be again. I also refuse to allow others to be burnt when I can step up and help. I am a complicated little/sub. Most would look at me and think she's a domme, nope. I live to please others always have, but I do have a super big protective streak especially for those I love.
i just (sorry for the language) pisses me the FUCK off!!! like I was talking to a couple guys who were pretty chill then were like "let me see your wet pussy" I was like "HELL TO THE FUCK NO!!!" God some times people are so stupid!!!!!!!
Now that's said, some people like when people get bossy right off the bat, but I don't. But when people false advertise GRRRRRRR. Just be open and fucking honest!!!!! If you are a MAster say it, if you are a sadist say it, if you are a daddy say it!!!! Don't mislead the trusting submissives down a road they will not be able to handle.
Okay rant over, thanks for listening or rather reading. Have a great holiday.
