alaurable's Blog

There's just something about shoving large toys in a big guy's ass that's so much fun. It's also fun with people of other genders too, but I particularly like doing it with cis men. I think anal training and CBT with cis men is becoming a fetish for me.

I've had countless negative experiences with cis men who have pushed or broken my boundaries, or generally made me feel uncomfortable around them. Being in a position of power over them, and doing something to them that makes them so incredibly vulnerable with me, is really fun. I call the shots; I control their pleasure or lack thereof. I still enjoy this power dynamic with people of other genders, but it's especially meaningful for me when dealing with cis men. It's like I'm regaining my confidence and learning to stand my ground against the very demographic that has caused me the most fear and self-doubt. Shoving things up their ass while squeezing their balls and calling them a sissy bitch is rather therapeutic, in a twisted maniacal way. ; )

And what could be more interesting that testing someone's limits with what they can take up their ass? Especially men that usually like to call the shots and be in control? I'll be the scientist today... you can be my guinea pig. Hehehehe.

Seriously, what's hotter than a petite femme getting to wear a massive silicone dick and mercilessly pound a tough guy's butt with it? Not much.

Doing anal play with someone who has a 'virgin' asshole is a big responsibility. I have to not only concern myself with consent and safety issues, and potential cleaning issues, but I must also make sure that I take things slow enough so they have a good time and don't get hurt in ways they don't want. I do want to push them out of their comfort zones, but only as far as they've agreed to go. Watching body language and listening for barely-audible safewords is vital, as is checking in with them after the scene to make sure they are ok with the pace and intensity that was used. Anal play is not just about the domme's power lust, as much as I enjoy that part. It's more important to ensure that the bottom (pun intended) also has a good time, and above all that their consent is respected at all times. Doing intense anal training forces me to stay on top of these things so I'm always prepared to be a safe, consent-minded play partner.