When people find out you're a Dom they expect you to be assertive, stubborn, and decisive. Normally I am, but I am not perfect. Sometimes I don't care what restaurant we go to or movie we see and am perfectly happy to let someone else choose. I am a very accepting person so Italian or Chinese matters very little to me. Marvel movie or slasher flick, couldn't care less. I am gripped by a fuzzy sense of apathy, that is the mental equivalent of vegging out on the sofa, and am perfectly fine with it. A comfortable blase morose in which I occasional indulge.
Why am I writing about this? Is it to encourage a conversation about how not everyone fits into their stereotypical role? How Dominants should occasionally relinquish control to maintain good mental health? Demonstrate my humanity?
No.
It is so if we are ever planning something and I say its your choice you don't respond with, "well let's do what ever you want." Because when I hear that I want to violently throttle you while screaming about how important it is to have concrete opinions. On second thought let's go with one of those other things. Make me seem less unstable.
