I'm college educated, respectably employed, and a fairly private person. I have about 10 years of experience now and the only 'truth' I've discovered is that when you think you've mastered a subject someone will come along and introduce an entirely new aspect. Which I find truly wonderful. There is always another knot to learn, another scene to act out, some stake that can be raised a little higher (figuratively and literally...), and another game to be played. A sea of possible experiences limited by my imagination and the willingness of my partner.
Other interests of mine including hiking, reading, collecting bits of trivia, bad puns, and writing. I've come to truly enjoy the last having developed some skill at drawing my readers into a scene and helping them fully experience the moment. Occasionally I try my hand at something other than naughty missives, but they are so much fun.
I am a Dom. Occasionally I have been accused of being a sadist as well, but I would not describe myself as such. I do not yell or punctuate every order with a strike. Instead I prefer to exert control calmly and patiently. I lay out instructions with exacting precision and expect those instructions to be followed exactly. When they are not my punishments are creative, effective, and sometimes enjoyable. During play I enjoy bondage, spanking, sensory deprivation, and situational games. I am also open minded about other aspects.
Hard Limits are children, animals, and being stabbed.