|Connecticut, United States|
I'm 28, college educated, respectably employed, and a fairly private person. I have about 10 years of experience now and the only 'truth' I've discovered is that when you think you've mastered a subject someone will come along and introduce an entirely new aspect. Which I find truly wonderful. There is always another knot to learn, another scene to act out, some stake that can be raised a little higher (figuratively and literally...), and another game to be played. A sea of possible experiences limited by my imagination and the willingness of my partner.
BDSM and me
I am a Dom. Occasionally I have been accused of being a sadist as well, but I would not describe myself as such. I do not yell or punctuate every order with a strike. Instead I prefer to exert control calmly and patiently. I lay out instructions with exacting precision and expect those instructions to be followed exactly. When they are not my punishments are creative, effective, and sometimes enjoyable. During play I enjoy bondage, spanking, sensory deprivation, and situational games. I am also open minded about other aspects.
Hard Limits are children, animals, and being stabbed.
Monday, September 9, 2019
Tuesday, August 28, 2018