THINKING AND KINKING

I know that sometimes our lives can change and spin out of control if we let them in such a short amount of time. I remember in mid July holding you in my arms and feeling such bliss with where we were at in our dynamic.  Just a couple weeks later everything came to a crashing halt for both of us. I now know that shouldn’t have happened.

I know over the last month we have each done lots of work on ourselves both individually and together. We have talked everything out, and have taken several baby steps forward again. Love was never supposed to be easy, true love never is. I know in my heart it is worth fighting through all the really tough times.

I know that we have both learned lessons from our mistakes. We are perfectly imperfect. We are a work in progress. We have cried, we have laughed, but most importantly I know that we have realized that we cannot let our lives be ruled by things that transpired in the past.

And do you wanna know what I know most of all? I just know that over the last 4 days with us being together again in person, things such as being able to hold each other, being able to look you in the eye as we talk and so much more, has made such a huge difference for us. I know that we are both very excited to spend all this time together and figure out where this journey takes us next. So here’s to the next 2 weeks and to the future! ❤️🤗😘😍🔥😈

MDG 😈

Earlier this week, I found an awesome feature with the help of a friend that has really helped me a great deal and I wanted to share my findings because I’m guessing many of you don’t know about this. If you have a blog or blogs that you do not care to see anymore in your feed simply go to that blog in the list of blogs and just drop down the arrow on the right and click on “hide blog”

And poof, it’s gone for good. No more negativity, no more noise!  I hope this can help someone else like it has helped me.  Sharing is caring!

On a side note, speaking about blogs, I wrote a blog on Tues Aug 24th that almost nobody saw because it was reported after only a few minutes. I admit it wasn’t a positive blog, but it was my raw feelings and I had every right to post it. I did not mention any names and I did not break any Cage rules or regulations. It took a while to get it approved in the appeal process, and it is now back and approved! (thank you Villanelle!) I will not be re-posting it because I have moved past the negativity now but it is there again if anyone cares to read it. If not, I ask that you kindly ignore my noise like I have done with others.

Thank you for stopping by and being a part of my journey!

MDG  ❤️

Today Sept 1st, marks 3 years to the day since I first joined this Cage community!

Man, time really flies when you’re having lots of kinky fun! I have had my share of ups and downs while being a member here. I have made many awesome friends, but also a couple enemies. I have found love, lost love, and have had my share of heartache and heartbreaks.

I have grown and evolved a great deal during the time I’ve been on the Cage. I have learned a ton about myself as a Daddy Dominant and I continue to strive to learn more and thrive every day. I’m a firm believer that we all need to have struggles in order to grow stronger.

For me, looking back at all of the great experiences I’ve had are truly amazing and such a blessing. I’m not going to take any of it for granted. And I won’t let any of the noise or any negative experience tarnish my outlook on this lifestyle or my future.

So cheers to the past 3 years and looking forward to the next 3 being even better! Wishing everyone kinky fun and success in their endeavors!

MDG 🥳

I will admit that the past month has been extremely hard on me. I struggled a great deal with many things that came to light that I had no clue about from the past. The things that I found out hurt me so much and rocked me to my core. I felt that I needed to make the best decision at that time to protect my heart.

Making big decisions when you are in a really bad place is never the best time to make life changing decisions. In addition, when someone outside of your dynamic is gaslighting both of you it is always best to turn and walk away and never engage. You must stay focused.

I have now learned to ignore all of the outside noise and focus on who and what is important to me. I have now learned who my friends are here. I am in a way better place than I was several weeks ago. I have done a ton of work on me and continue to do so. I know I am on the correct path moving forward now. I know everything will be okay, whatever it takes.

A big thank you to everyone who has reached out to me over the last month. I truly appreciate it.

MDG ❤️

I’M SORRY!

I’m sorry for not being a better Daddy to you.

I’m sorry that my actions caused you such pain that you made bad decisions.

I’m sorry that you didn’t come to me and tell me about those things and make it right.

I’m sorry that I had to hear about it from someone else and confront you after all this time.

I’m sorry that you don’t remember what occurred or feel like it isn’t real.

I’m sorry that you’re feeling guilty now.

I’m sorry for not hearing what you were trying to say about a particular subject in the past.

I’m sorry for not being a better listener during those discussions.

I’m sorry for making you feel as if your feelings were wrong back then.

I’m sorry for making you feel like you didn’t have an opinion or a voice on the matter.

I’m sorry that I made you feel so broken.

I’m sorry that I made you feel so empty and hurt.

I’m sorry that I made you feel unimportant or that I put my friend above you back then.

I’m sorry that you called me when you needed me and I wasn’t there for you at that moment.

I’m sorry that I could not protect you.

I’m sorry that I could not keep you safe.

I’m sorry that I can’t change the past and take your pain away.

I’m just so very sorry!

MDG 

Looking back on this past week, I feel that I am not handling my situation very well at all. My heart feels like it has  exploded into a million pieces. The shock of losing my babygirl, my soulmate, and my best friend has totally broken me. I feel like I’m free falling and cannot breathe.

I know it will get better in time, I just need to keep telling myself that and also need to try and take WAY better care of myself than I have been! 

MDG 💔

It is just not easy for me to articulate my feelings and put them into many words at the moment. It is so difficult to move on with life and cope when a loving dynamic shockingly ends after over 2-1/2 years.

Unfortunately, that is exactly where I find myself right now. It’s only been 3 days since my (former) babygirl and I parted ways, and I am well aware that I have some really rough days ahead of me as I grieve this loss.

However, as I heal, I will try my best to be as strong as possible to get through those hard grueling times ahead with my broken Daddy heart. Right now though, I just know it hurts more than anything.

I honestly do not want or need pity from people. I am writing to try and heal and hopefully more words will come through this process.

“There will be a time when you are forced to follow your heart away from someone you love.”

Ashly Lorenzana

“Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”

Alfred Lord Tennyson

MDG 💔

Hello Cage friends and family, 

I hope you are all doing well. I have missed many of you. It’s hard to believe I haven’t been on here in over 9 months but I am back and will give an update soon. But for anyone looking for a little friendly advice, I’ll just leave this here...

Or should it say collar?? I say both as responsibility goes to both parties!!

MDG ❤️

Dora the Explorer says “Shame on you!”

She says “Shame, shame, shame!”

Dora the Explorer does not like villains!

Dora the Explorer does not like trolls!

Dora the Explorer once again says “No bueno!”

Dora the Explorer is really impressed that you learned to press the button so quickly!

However, she wants you to know that you’re pressing the wrong button! You aren’t supposed to press the report post button. You’re supposed to press the button that says “Love it!” (Or, kindly just move along if you don’t)

Although Dora the Explorer is happy that you are learning how to press buttons, she is not happy that you reported the same post twice especially after it was approved. Therefore, Dora the Explorer is joining me now in saying “Fuck You!”

Everyone knows that Dora the Explorer is very very smart. She smells something is really off. Dora says it smells like “Chicken”. 🐔🍗

Can everyone help Dora say “Chicken”?🐔🍗

Go ahead, give it a try...say “Chicken”🐔🍗

You can do it...say “Chicken” 🐔🍗

Thank you so very mucho “Mr. Chicken” for blocking me. It actually helped Dora find you so quickly on her trusty map! 🧐🤭🤷🏻‍♂️

I found it very odd that “Mr. Chicken” blocked me after my first Dora post. I have never liked or commented on any of “Mr. Chicken’s” blog posts he has posted. I never really liked Chicken anyway. I have always preferred pussy myself!

It also helped when I read Villanelle’s blog post from last year about reporting blogs. You see, unlike “Mr. Chicken”, I have never blocked or reported anyone in the 2 years I’ve been here. So when I read her post and saw the comment “Mr. Chicken” made it all made sense to me! 

“Mr. Chicken”, find something else to do instead of continuously trolling and reporting blog posts. You also seem to have a habit of blocking fellow Doms for no reason. I know of at least 2 others who you’ve blocked. You were asked why by a friend of mine on 8/4 and you have simply avoided answering, which coincidentally adds to the name you have given yourself.

You could just go fuck yourself, this a BDSM site after all. (But don’t tell Dora if you go fuck yourself cuz she is not into kinky stuff)

See previous blog post which has been reinstated for a 2nd time after being reported by “Mr. Chicken” but approved by Villanelle twice!

MDG 🐔🍗

This post has been APPROVED by Villanelle after being reported and removed a few days ago. If you don’t like it, I would kindly ask for you to just move along and ignore it!

If for some reason you cannot ignore it, reporting it will do you no good. Again, because it has been approved by Villanelle!

Dora the Explorer would say “No bueno”

I just say Fuck You!

Now back to our regularly scheduled program...

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Now we know how Trump passed his cognitive test. This is just way too funny! 😂😂😂

https://m.facebook.com/FallonTonight/videos/1012645662538839/

Good for you Mr. smarty pants!! 🙄

MDG  😂