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11 months ago. Saturday, February 22, 2025 at 4:12 AM

 

I thought our last kiss was supposed to be quick and unpretentious, but after the first brush of his lips, the fire surged up and roared through my belly. My fingers pulled him close, digging into his back, and his arms crushed me against him as if wanting to fuse us together. I tangled my fingers in his hair and bit down on his bottom lip, causing him to groan. His lips parted, and my tongue swept in to dance with his. Our last kiss was anything but sweet or gentle; it was filled with sorrow and desperation, the bitter realization that we could’ve had something perfect, but it just wasn’t meant to be.

 

~M

 

 

11 months ago. Thursday, February 20, 2025 at 6:12 AM

When I first heard this cover, I was utterly captivated by the artist's unique interpretation. The vocals were powerful, and the arrangement added a fresh twist that I hadn’t expected. It elevated the original song to another level. I wanted to share it.

 

Gimme Shelter (The Rolling Stones) feat. Taj Mahal | Playing For Change | Song Around The World

Oh, a storm is threatening
My very life today
If I don't get some shelter
Oh yeah, I'm gonna fade away

War, children, it's just a shot away
It's just a shot away
War, children, it's just a shot away
It's just a shot away

Ooh, see the fire sweepin'
Our very street today
Burns like a red coal carpet
Mad bull lost its way

War, children, it's just a shot away
It's just a shot away
War, children, it's just a shot away
It's just a shot away

The floods is threatening
My very life today
Gimme, gimme shelter
Or I'm gonna fade away

War, children, it's just a shot away
It's just a shot away

I tell you love, sister, it's just a kiss away
It's just a kiss away

Kiss away, kiss away

Photo By: Me

 

 

 

 

11 months ago. Tuesday, February 18, 2025 at 6:47 AM

 

 

*Note to Self*

 

I must remind myself that I have no power over how others perceive or interpret my energy. Every word I express and every action I take is inevitably filtered through the unique experiences, emotions, and beliefs that shape their perspectives. I need to focus on staying true to what resonates with my core values and fulfilling my purpose. It’s essential to approach each situation with as much integrity and compassion as I can muster, allowing love to guide my choices and interactions. Ultimately, my only responsibility is to continue living authentically, regardless of how others may react.

 

~M

 

11 months ago. Sunday, February 16, 2025 at 4:55 AM

My relationship with music has always been colored by a profound sense of nostalgia. Each note and melody stirs deep emotions within me, transporting me to moments long past. I have never encountered music with a sense of coldness or detachment; instead, I immerse myself in its warmth and emotion. Rather than dissecting or analyzing the feeling of exile, I have chosen to fully embrace the bittersweet sorrow it brings, allowing it to resonate deeply within my soul.

*Unknown

 

* Gypsy ~ Fleetwood Mac ~ Greatest Hits

* So Lonely ~ The Police ~ The Best Of The Police

* The Times They Are A Changing ~ Bob Dylan ~ The Times They Are A Changing

* You've Really Got A Hold A Hold On Me ~ Small Faces ~ From The Beginning

* The First Taste ~ Fiona Apple ~ Tidal

* If I Had It All ~ Dave Matthews Band ~ Everyday

* White Bird ~ It's A Beautiful Day ~ It's A Beautiful Day

* Almost Hear You Sigh ~ Rolling Stones ~ Steel Wheels

* Here Comes Your Man ~ The Pixies ~ Doolittle

* Sunday Girl ~ Blondie ~ Best Of Blondie

 

The Times They Are A Changing ~ Bob Dylan

Come gather 'round people
Wherever you roam
And admit that the waters
Around you have grown
And accept it that soon
You'll be drenched to the bone.
If your time to you
Is worth savin'
Then you better start swimmin'
Or you'll sink like a stone
For the times they are a-changin'.

Come writers and critics
Who prophesize with your pen
And keep your eyes wide
The chance won't come again
And don't speak too soon
For the wheel's still in spin
And there's no tellin' who
That it's namin'.
For the loser now
Will be later to win
For the times they are a-changin'.

Come senators, congressman
Please heed the call
Don't stand in the doorway
Don't block up the hall
For he who gets hurt
Will be he who has stalled
There's a battle outside
And it is ragin'.
It'll soon shake your windows
And rattle your walls
For the times they are a-changin'.

Come mothers and fathers
Throughout the land
And don't criticize
What you can't understand
Your sons and your daughters
Are beyond your command
You old road is
Rapidly agin'.
Please get out of the new one
If you can't lend your hand
For the times they are a-changin'.

The line it is drawn
The curse it is cast
The slow one now
Will later be fast
As the present now
Will later be past
The order is
Rapidly fadin'.
And the first one now
Will later be last
For the times they are a-changin'

 

 

 

11 months ago. Thursday, February 13, 2025 at 5:56 AM


1. Who you are now is not who you will be in 10 years. It is okay to be somebody new 10 minutes from now. We are always learning. We are always growing. If you realized 10 seconds ago that you don’t like who you are, shed your skin, retry, and replant yourself in good soil.

2. Cleaning is instant therapy. When your brain is muddy, shower, wash your hands, and change your clothes. Spend 15 minutes straightening your living room. When you are angry, scrub things. I know it’s crazy but it works instantly.

3. Forgive someone’s debt if it’s under 50 dollars, forgive the small things, give a little time to yourself, and forgive the big things too. Forgiveness isn’t about the other person, it’s about you. That being said, if someone ever hurts you in a way that would make me cry, you get out of there, my love. You just get up and go.

4. Gum karma is real and if you spit out a piece in public expect to find some on your shoe in the future. The same goes for insults and harsh judgment, too.

5. Do what you love and the money will follow.

6. Live your life with an open palm and give as much as you can and as often. At some point in your life, someone will lend you 50 bucks when you’re down on your luck. Remember how that feels. Remember to give that back.

7. Always wear clean underwear. You’ll thank me later.

8. There is a difference between being kind and being passive and there are those who cannot see that difference. They will try to walk all over you. Never bend your knees for those who do.

9. Have faith. Have faith in god or people or yourself or science or luck or all of the above. Faith is what keeps us going, faith is what keeps us strong.

10. Pay your bills on time whenever you can, although money is nothing. Remind yourself that.

11. Do not forget you were once ignorant of all you know now. Be patient with anyone who hasn’t had the education you have. Speak at the level of the person you are with - it’s not playing dumb, it’s being considerate. There’s no reason to make them feel uncomfortable. Plus then when someone starts going off about their superior IQ, you can cut them to pieces and watch their face when you do.

12. You are the best person in the room for one particular thing, and that’s confidence. You are the worst person in the room for another thing, and that’s humility. Use both carefully.

13. Never make fun of someone’s beliefs or superstitions, let your kid keep their imaginary friend, and let your best buddy believe in knocking on wood. We all have security blankets. Don’t take away someone else’s.

14. Try to learn something new every day.

15. The worse you look, the more likely you are to run into someone you know so instead of feeling awkward, learn to be confident in sweats while talking to your friends.

16. Never go to bed angry, it will ruin your sleep and make tomorrow even harder. Find a way to relax. Don’t let today get to your head.

17. Think before you speak. When someone says something, mull over their words before answering. This is called listening, it is different than hearing.

18. What keeps love beautiful is that there’s risk involved. If he breaks your heart and it doesn’t hurt, it wasn’t love in the first place.

19. Never let someone else determine who you are or how happy. You are too strong to be torn apart.

20. I love you, even when we are fighting, even when I am fast asleep. Don’t doubt it for an instant. You are my everything.

 

 

 

~ everythingyoulovetoohate

 

 

11 months ago. Sunday, February 9, 2025 at 5:09 AM

* How You Like Me Now ~ The Heavy ~ The House That Dirt Built
* It's Raining ~ Inara George ~ It's Raining
* Gypsy ~ Fleetwood Mac ~ Greatest Hits
* Just A Girl ~ No Doubt ~ The Singles
* Secret ~ Maroon 5 ~ Songs About Jane
* Can't Get Next To You ~ The Temptations ~ Gold
* Rule #15 Four Aces ~ Fish In A Bird Cage ~ Waterfall
* A Rose Is Still A Rose ~ Aretha Franklin ~ A Rose Is Still A Rose
* Ring Of Fire ~ Social Distortion ~ Social Distortion
* Add It Up ~ Violent Femmes ~ Violent Femmes

 

 ~Just A Girl ~ No Doubt

Take this pink ribbon off my eyes
I'm exposed, and it's no big surprise
Don't you think I know exactly where I stand?
This world is forcing me to hold your hand

'Cause I'm just a girl, a little ol' me
Well, don't let me out of your sight
Oh, I'm just a girl, all pretty and petite
So don't let me have any rights
Oh, I've had it up to here

The moment that I step outside
So many reasons for me to run and hide
I can't do the little things I hold so dear
'Cause it's all those little things that I fear

'Cause I'm just a girl, I'd rather not be
'Cause they won't let me drive late at night
Oh, I'm just a girl, guess I'm some kind of freak
'Cause they all sit and stare with their eyes

Oh, I'm just a girl, take a good look at me
Just your typical prototype
Oh, I've had it up to here
Oh, am I making myself clear?

I'm just a girl, I'm just a girl in the world
That's all that you'll let me be

Oh, I'm just a girl living in captivity
Your rule of thumb makes me worrisome
Oh, I'm just a girl, what's my destiny?
What I've succumbed to is making me numb

Oh, I'm just a girl, my apologies
What I've become is so burdensome
Oh, I'm just a girl, lucky me
Twiddle Dum, there's no comparison

Oh, I've had it up to
Oh, I've had it up to
Oh, I've had it up to here

 

 

 


 

11 months ago. Tuesday, February 4, 2025 at 10:24 AM

The BDSM lifestyle offers a space for trust, exploration, and deep connection. However, it also demands clear communication and respect for personal boundaries. While many in the community honor these principles, some do not. Recognizing those who disregard consent is crucial for ensuring your safety and emotional well-being.

When you clearly say “no,” “stop,” or use your safeword, those words must be respected without question. They are not suggestions or invitations for negotiation. Ignoring these boundaries demonstrates a lack of respect for you as an individual and your comfort. No matter how many apologies are offered afterward, the violation of your trust cannot be undone. Actions speak louder than words, and if someone does not heed these clear signals, their behavior reveals their true intentions.

Soft limits are boundaries that can shift, but they still deserve respect. These limits may be more flexible than hard ones, but that does not mean they can be ignored. A person who constantly challenges these boundaries is testing your patience, and their repeated disregard can quickly become harmful. If they brush off your discomfort with a quick apology, it is a sign that their respect for your boundaries is lacking. The ability to apologize is easy; showing consistent respect for your limits is what truly matters.

Hard limits, on the other hand, are non-negotiable and must always be respected. These are the boundaries that should never be crossed, regardless of the circumstances. If someone “forgets” or ignores these limits, they are failing to prioritize your safety. Trust your memory of these boundaries, as they reflect your core needs and comfort. Any justification or excuse given for breaching hard limits should be rejected outright.

BDSM can be an incredibly fulfilling and empowering experience when practiced with mutual respect. But the key to a safe and rewarding journey in the lifestyle is understanding who to trust and who to avoid. Trust actions over apologies, and prioritize your well-being by recognizing when someone is willing to challenge your limits. When you encounter individuals who disregard your boundaries, it is essential to walk away and protect yourself

 

 By Edward Volkl.

 

I came across this article and wanted to share it because I believe it is highly relevant. I respect the author and have been following his work for several years. The topics discussed in this piece are vital for maintaining a healthy relationship.

 

~M

 

11 months ago. Monday, February 3, 2025 at 5:45 AM

The beach has a unique way of bringing peace and calmness. It invites you to embrace its beauty. It's as if the ocean understands your deepest secrets and thoughts without judgment. In those moments, any pain and sadness you carry seem to wash away with the ebbing waves. The beach, with its sprawling stretches of soft, golden sand, holds an enchanting ability to envelop visitors in a cocoon of peace and tranquility. As you approach the shoreline, the rhythmic symphony of waves crashing against the shore creates a calming backdrop, inviting you to pause and take in the stunning scenery. The horizon glistens with the warm hues of a rising sun, painting the sky in rich tones of amber, pink, and deep blue, casting a magical glow over everything.

 

Standing barefoot on the sand, you can feel its grainy texture between your toes, grounding you as the salty breeze gently tousles your hair. The vast expanse of the ocean stretches before you, its surface shimmering like countless diamonds under the sun. In these serene moments, it feels as if the sea is attuned to your heart and mind, absorbing your deepest secrets and thoughts without a hint of judgment.

 

As you breathe in the crisp, salty air, any burdens weighing on your spirit begin to dissolve. The sound of the surf becomes a therapeutic lullaby, and with each retreating wave, your pain and sadness are gently rinsed away, leaving you feeling lighter and more connected to the world around you. The beach transforms into a sanctuary, a place where you can be vulnerable and free, renewing your spirit with every passing tide.

~M

Photo Taken By: Me

 

11 months ago. Tuesday, January 28, 2025 at 12:19 PM

 

 

1 year ago. Wednesday, January 22, 2025 at 5:23 AM

“To love and be loved, to always remember the little things that make us who we are. To remain sensitive to the harsh realities and stark inequalities that surround us. To find joy in the most unexpected places and seek beauty wherever it may be hidden. To appreciate the complex without oversimplifying, and to respect true strength instead of mere power. Most importantly, we should observe and strive to understand what we see, stay engaged, and never look away. And above all, always to remember." 

 

~Arundhati Roy, ‘The Cost of Living’