Firecracker(sub female){Collared}

Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

I'm a owned and collared. The journey I have been on with Daddy is amazing...and only gets better! This is my daily entries of what is going on in my head and stories of all the things I’m learning with Daddy!

Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC)

4 years ago. March 20, 2021 at 12:22 PM

Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) - This phrase describes what the BDSM community considers ethical behavior. Kink enthusiasts stress that activities must always be safe, sane, and consensual.

Im so glad my Daddy has always talked to me about everything before it happens. Being new to the lifestyle there is alot I don't know and had misconceptions about a lot. Him taking the time to make sure I understood and let me make my choice if I was ready or not is so important.

Thoughts?

Tasnim(other female) - It's truly the better way to do things. Trying out new things might be scary sometimes and the uncertainty makes us hesitate. But if spoken to by someone experienced and explained what would happen and the process of it, it makes things much more easier as a vague idea appears i the head about what to expect.

4 years ago

AdamDragon(dom male) - Patience and communication are key factors of SSC. Definitely talking before any kind of play and yes giving you choices to explore and to what level is most important. Take your time. Don’t experience sub frenzy. One step at a time. Your journey will be much more amazing Well done ! ?

4 years ago

AdamDragon(dom male) - Kinksters yes. Lifestylers on the other hand ALWAYS recognize SSC There IS a difference

4 years ago

Bluebutterfly(sub female){Havelock } - I’m so glad as that’s exactly how everybody should be in this lifestyle, whether you are new or not. Communication is vital.

4 years ago

dollMaker(dom male) - I think that FRIES - Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific, works much better, but still have a place for SSC

I have seen RACK, PRICK, and BORK, used by some to victim blame/shame and scape goat the sub, away for the top/dom/master to dodge responsibility.

4 years ago

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Firecracker​(sub female)​{Collared}

Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC)

Firecracker(sub female){Collared}