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Age: Reality versus common perception

I am a 76 year Dom. I’m perceived and even written about that we are perverse old men. Strangely, no more perverse than you the reader. We all have desires that we wish fulfillment of. The sub seeking a caring, nurturing but strict Dom. The alpha male Dom who thinks he is god’s gift to women. The baby girl in search of a loving caring Daddy.
What makes the perception of older men as perverse?
Older men have created that image of just wanting to have a private showing of a younger woman. It is sad, as there are respectful Doms who are wanting a heart felt D/s relationship be the sub18 or 78.
Society has placed a value on looking and being young. People go to great lengths to try to hold into their youth.
Granted, the face of a younger woman/man is seen as a symbol of purity, of virginity or virility.
Sadly, society grants the man a longer, stronger image than the woman. She disappears from view except in rare cases. Nevertheless, a man past say 55 is considered over the hill and less desirable than a younger man.
Yes, younger men are certainly more appealing in many aspects as Doms or subs.
But what about the person who is searching for his/her dream, be the other sub or Dom?
Does age truly mark the person as perverted because he/she wants fulfillment?
is every 18 year old sub entering the community as a Lolita? Or a boitoy? What if he/she wants that stronger older person?
I’ll admit many a faux paux when approaching people on this site. That’s on me.
I want respect, yes, BUT I have to earn it just like you have to EARN trust with those you seek.
Bottom line, age is a number of years alive. Nothing more.
It does not dictate that I am verboten, spoiled goods, or a pervert. I am a Dominant Male seeking his treasure! And treasure her/him I do and will continue to do....
Dungeon-Dom
1 year ago. July 17, 2022 at 7:47 PM

We all want to be accepted. We all want to be desired. We all want to live our desires. We all want to be considered special. We all want our needs met.

For many within the BDSM world, not all these things are possible, so we search, we yearn, we hope. Most of all we keep hoping.

Regardless of who you are, or your status in life, I strongly urge you to keep hoping for the outcome you desire. Life is a journey. Enjoy each moment and even if there are setbacks, keep hoping. I am hopeful that someday I will find the sub/slave I need to fulfill me. 

Make your mantra one of hope and of belief.

M