To prove the validity of thought in the Title, I checked my Rule Book. . . oh wait, I don't have one, in fact nobody has one. . .by choice or maybe it's simply genes, everybody simply has different cravings and needs. . . wanting to serve and offer submission, or wanting to guide and control, doesn't make you inferior or superior. . . just makes you have different cravings.
As much as the Dominant wishes to be pleased by his submissive. . . so should he in fact think of how best for his submissive to be pleased. . .
Its a partnership. . . and pleasure needs to be developed for both partners day after day after day. .
I suspect there are many who approach BDSM and D/s with different views. . . and their opinion is what is best for them. . and mine is best for Houstongentleman7@gmail.com