Too Many Littles?

Sunshinegirl​(sub female) - That does not sound like a healthy dynamic. Please have a sit down talk with your Daddy and let him know how you are feeling about this.

LittleKittiKat​(sub female) - I honestly have tried but it just doesn't seem to sink in?

Gelsemium​(sub female) - Danger, Will Robinson!

LittleKittiKat​(sub female) - But what do I do?

Gelsemium​(sub female) - Run. If I were in your shoes and my Dom brushed away my feelings that were affecting the dynamic and I no longer felt healthy or secure, I’d run my fine ass right out of his grasp in the blink of my lovely lashes.

babygirlluv​(sub female){No} - If you tried talking to him and your the only one who gets punished for expressing your feelings. It's time to walk away before it gets way out of hand

LittleKittiKat​(sub female) - You make it sound easy. But you can't really just walk away from a marriage

babygirlluv​(sub female){No} - Ok maybe just separate for a little bit make him realize the error of what he is doing

Jolene​(sub female){PapaBear} - If she is new to y'alls dynamic, he will go through a period of enamoration, excitement, and obsession, just like in any budding relationship. Sort of like getting a new phone or new toy. It's exciting at first, but becomes monotonous as time passes. If you're okay being in this poly relationship, for you this will be a period of patience and understanding while your Dom and the new sub learn about each other through exploration. Take this as time to explore yourself. Your wants and needs. The frequency of attention and affection you require. Your boundaries. However, if after consideration you've concluded that you are not happy or fulfilled in this poly relationship, then I strongly suggest you confess that to your husband and ask that it comes to an end. I have found, in my limited experience, that littles struggle in poly relationships as their needs are mostly dedication and devotion from their dom's and less authority and structure. Splitting attention and affection with another little presses on deep wounds and fears within a little and causes them immense pain. Don't feel bad if your unhappy and want it to end. We're all allowed to explore and attempt, but that doesn't mean it has to be permanent. Communication is key, and if he's unwilling to listen then it might be time to introduce a therapist.

hisbaby​(sub female){MDG} - Honestly, your feelings are valid and he should always listen to what you have to say and try to make things better. I had an issue and with feelings and told my Daddy about all of my feelings good, bad or indifferent and we talked about them and we fixed it. Your Daddy should do the same, talk with you and try to make it better... It doesn't matter if it's jealousy or whatever you are entitled to your feelings and as your daddy he should try to help you not brush it off. I am sorry you are going through this. If he cannot respect you or your feelings then it’s time to move on.

LittleKittiKat​(sub female) - I'm just holding out for a miracle at this point. It's been like a year and a half and it's only getting worse.

hisbaby​(sub female){MDG} - I am sorry to hear that but that tells me it’s time to move on, he apparently does not care about your feelings or anything else.