6 years ago. October 24, 2018 at 9:36 PM
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What Do I Want From A Sub?
When a woman submits to a man, it's the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It's his sworn duty to protect, honor and cherish his submissive. To take care of her and provide a safe haven. Someone who would put his own needs above his woman's is no man.”― Maya Banks, Sweet Addiction
CK45(sub female)
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Agree ck....or take someone that is already restrained by their life and restrain them further in a way they are not willing to go....that’s abuse.
I know I’m new but I know that I long for the submissive part of me to be honoured and set free under the guidance of an accepting Dom.
I hope this makes sense...
❤️
I know I’m new but I know that I long for the submissive part of me to be honoured and set free under the guidance of an accepting Dom.
I hope this makes sense...
❤️
6 years ago
CK45(sub female)
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Don’t want to argue...but
Big difference between “bound by the trails of her life” = always having to face challenges, always having to be strong on the outside to everyone, facing difficult times and having to push through it, having to work very hard to get results or successes, feeling like you can’t share this side of yourself because maybe it’s still taboo, feeling stuck in a relationship or situation where this understanding doesn’t exist...
And
“Bound by the trails of her own mind” = mental illness.
Just saying.....BIG Difference (no shame in either one btw).
Also.
Act as their nature intends...
From a submissive standpoint, it’s what I am. It’s not how I behave. Many relationships don’t allow or encourage that natural state. This type of relationship does.
It has taken me a long time to understand this.
That’s what I took from it at least.
Just my 2 cents. If you don’t like it just push on past this post.
(Sorry for the rant, I am babbling and feeling a bit out of sorts this evening).
❤️
Big difference between “bound by the trails of her life” = always having to face challenges, always having to be strong on the outside to everyone, facing difficult times and having to push through it, having to work very hard to get results or successes, feeling like you can’t share this side of yourself because maybe it’s still taboo, feeling stuck in a relationship or situation where this understanding doesn’t exist...
And
“Bound by the trails of her own mind” = mental illness.
Just saying.....BIG Difference (no shame in either one btw).
Also.
Act as their nature intends...
From a submissive standpoint, it’s what I am. It’s not how I behave. Many relationships don’t allow or encourage that natural state. This type of relationship does.
It has taken me a long time to understand this.
That’s what I took from it at least.
Just my 2 cents. If you don’t like it just push on past this post.
(Sorry for the rant, I am babbling and feeling a bit out of sorts this evening).
❤️
6 years ago
CK45(sub female)
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Hawkeye,
I am not different than anyone else nor did I ever claim to be...was stating the difference between the two and made it clear it was my opinion.
“Bound by the trails in her life” does NOT equal having mental heath issues.
I think most would agree with this statement.
Maybe I wasn’t born this way but very early in life the tendencies were there for me as well as some others I have spoken to here and on other sites so that’s why I feel it’s “natural state” for some.
Agree with you both that a Dom will want to mould a sub into what he wants...on the same token, a sub in her (what I call) her “natural state” will want to please him and feel safe enough to BE moulded into what he desires.
I am not different than anyone else nor did I ever claim to be...was stating the difference between the two and made it clear it was my opinion.
“Bound by the trails in her life” does NOT equal having mental heath issues.
I think most would agree with this statement.
Maybe I wasn’t born this way but very early in life the tendencies were there for me as well as some others I have spoken to here and on other sites so that’s why I feel it’s “natural state” for some.
Agree with you both that a Dom will want to mould a sub into what he wants...on the same token, a sub in her (what I call) her “natural state” will want to please him and feel safe enough to BE moulded into what he desires.
6 years ago
CK45(sub female)
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Hawkeye,
There is nothing constructive in the first post you made nor in the last.
Just very judgemental and frankly mean.
I’m sorry I got sucked into this one....
~sigh~
Apologies for highjacking your blog O.
There is nothing constructive in the first post you made nor in the last.
Just very judgemental and frankly mean.
I’m sorry I got sucked into this one....
~sigh~
Apologies for highjacking your blog O.
6 years ago
shahh
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I totally agree with Hawkeye here... A MASSIVE UNMISTAKEABLE red flag for all submissives resides within this post. Well, more accurately, within the comments of this beautiful post 😉. 50 lashes to the first sub to see it!! 😏
6 years ago