Abandonment, what does this word mean? Well to Webster it means
1a: left without needed protection, care, to support
b: left by the owner an abandoned car:
left to fall into a state of disuse an abandoned fieldabandoned propertyan abandoned factory
c: no longer held or thought of : given up abandoned hopes/dreams
WHOA!!! Now as a sub I look at this and think was Webster into kink?
Butt 😁really when I read the definition I lost a few tears down my face. What a sad word. Yet we’ve all done this word, abandoned someone or something. “BUTT😆😂 I really tried not to laugh it’s still my favorite word and makes me smile” Anyway so what is the emotional part of this word? I believe C says a lot hopes dreams. Webster didn’t have anything that describe the emotional part in there and why may I ask? Is it because it’s to awful of a word to describe? Or because there are to many words to describe?
abandonment is a powerful word. And watching on this site I notice a lot of Doms and Subs doing this to each other. “Ghosting” I believe is just another word for abandon”. Now everyone has their own opinions but this is mine.
now my next question is how do you really give an opinion of someone while texting. Because I will tell you on here I can text in my space or I should say a Doms space. BUTT😂😆 in person I’m a whole different person I will hardly say a word. I’ll answer but ask a question no way. I just sit watch and observe. “Invisible”. Now as far as ghosting I won’t no one ever deserves that. Not in text or person. I do understand that some people get carried away or maybe the word is attached. Maybe infatuated could be another word. Anyway they just need attachment. To feel. Isn’t that why we are all on here because we want to feel. Maybe come out of invisibility once in a while. Be able to talk about our dark desires needs and wants. Maybe feel protected once in a while.
I for one have never been protected. Not as a child or an adult. So I very much understand that need want desire. I understand the feeling of abandonment as a child and an adult. Which of us hasn’t felt this emotion? It’s horrible and awful so why would you want to do that to someone else?
I really do have to learn to toughen up I just made myself cry with my own blog. I’m a nerdy dork.
