So after my blog about abandonment I read all the wonderful post. Thank you all. But someone sent me something and it made me realize something. And this something is something that maybe some of you all need to think about also. Yes Doms, subs and everyone. We all know what abandonment is and a lot of us know what it feels like? But what did we learn from it? What were we blessed with from it?
let’s look at it from these questions. I for one have very few friends like maybe three that truly know me. Why is that? Because I built walls and I hide in the shadows. Now is that a bad thing or a good thing? that’s for me to decided, And I like it. because the few true friends I have I know I can count on them. God blessed me with true friends not fakes not loaners not temporary only when the good time are around friends. True omg what can I do to help let’s celebrate let’s figure it out let’s “DO THIS” kind of friends. These are rare to come by and I treasure them. No they don’t know everything about me but that’s ok they still love me. This I call a blessing.
now this blessing came because I have the strength to stand alone even if I don’t like it. I can fight my own wolf at the door because I have had to do it my entire life. I have no body strength so I’ve had to call upon what I do have and that is quick wit. Let’s face I’m about as dumb as they come and I barely graduated high school and no college so my skills are limited. You would think. Not the case I mange to work 70/80 hours a week balance a checking account and take on the health care system. I fought for everything I have and own which is not a lot like it all fits in my car. But I did that I accomplished that.I have had the strength to carry on through all the trails and tribulations life has thrown at me. Would I have been this tough without being abandoned? No being abandoned has made me the person I am today. And I am here to tell you I am proud of who I am.
to all of you who have been abandoned you should be proud of where you are. you have had the strength to move forward grow and let’s face it if your on this site you’ve learned to be honest about what you like don’t like and how much you can take and still survive. Apocalyse be damn we will be the survivors. We have been through hell and raised above it. Embrace your past and adventure to your future my friends. We are the ones with emotional strength we are the ones that can endure and move on. ❤️❤️❤️
