So is it my imagination which could well be. But do you read a text message and you read it and the mood that your in is how you take the message. or you can read the emotion in a text.
I could be weird but I do these things. I seem to feel the emotion behind the text message.
Now some are funny and you can’t help but laugh. Or sometimes they make you cry.
But really I am beginning to think text messaging is a bad thing. because people k me the over thinker here. I read so much more into the text then there is.
also we send text messages so much everyday that at the end of the day what do couples do when they get home? Because they’ve already told each other everything through out the day. And then when they get home they sit and play games or Facebook all night never talking to each other. Or repeating the same story over Amd over for the night. Never sharing the adventure in which it should be shared. In person with your emotions running through your body as you tell what happened. It’s not just with our partners it’s our kids also.
I have decided to try and limit my texting to a minimum. I am going to stop and give the person that i am texting my full attention by talking on the phone.
I am going to use phone etiquette. I’m going to have pen paper ready when I make a call. I’m not going to be making Mac and cheese when I make that call. I’m going to give that person 120% of my attention.
ok I answer phones all day long. I answer phones so much that I really don’t want to talk. But I am going to do this.
I have had people call me while they are driving which I’m sure they are all using hands free. 🤔 when they make that call though they have to read me the number off their cards while they are DRIVING!!!! Because that’s so safe. But mostly I do not want to hear them in a car crash. But I have decided if I do rule #6 I will not get involved. Oops the call dropped I’m outta there. I have answered calls while people are having sex…… I have answered phones while they are in the shower and on the toilet. Yes I have heard the grunting to get it out and the flush. While they are doing the dishes and cooking. While they yell at their kids or while their toddler is screaming at the top of their lungs in my ear. My ears are bad enough people they don’t need that. I have had to have someone repeat themselves because they are texting someone else while they are talking to me. I just now tell them sorry couldn’t hear you I just heard beeping. I have had some call me while they are in a drive through and then put me on hold while they make their order. Oh you would think I was done but I’m not, sorry. There is soooooooo much more. I have people book appointments while driving and then when you confirm they say oh your going to give me reminder call because I’m DRIVING!!!!! And I can’t write it down. Wth smh this has got to stop. I can’t change anyone else. But I can change me. So I am going to start by slowing my life down just a little and use phone etiquette.
I know not a sexy gooey love story. Or a raw sex story. But maybe if I stop texting I will come up with one of those or actually have both come into my life.
to Wanda