3 weeks ago. Sat 24 Aug 2019 02:14:11 AM IDT
I suppose it might be just me but I am sure that I see an increasing number of increasingly angry (mostly) male doms who seem to feel more and more that the gods of online dating really should provide them, at minimum, with regular, real life, blow jobs. Coupled with the women who feel that we (men) should learn some manners and stop thinking that submissive means property of everyone. Everyone is angry with the catfish and recurrent ghosters which, as everyone could be a catfish or ghoster, means that everyone is angry with every one ells.
Maybe it has just been one of those days; earlier, on a different site, I came across possibly the angriest and rudest man ever. You probably had to be there but an example of his rhetoric went like this:
Not going to follow this whiney thread because it works both ways. There are men who are thirsty, hungry, unscrupulous pursuers of women and there are women who are lying, ghosting, dramatic, waste of time losers too. I was talking to one who was talking to me in case her current dom dumped her, so she had a backup , another married doctor, now a stay at home mom, whose husband works his ass off so she can sit at home and get her ass beat by her dom. It works both ways. Before you point fingers to the men on here, consider that there are 10 to 1 men to women on this cesspool, and it is damn hard to find a woman who isn't a drama-queen, dismissive, lying, ghosting piece of crap. Goodbye.
I think there is a point berried somewhere in there, but I have no idea what it was. I looked at his profile, he thought that all women on the site were "evil", seriously! (I realise that I should not really be sharing this but, it had to be read to be believed, also he was such a dick that he really did not deserve much consideration. I changed quite a lot). Another man on the same discussion described men as massively disadvantaged when it came to romance.
Later I read a Post in which a women asked what could be done about creepy and dangerous men. As all ways no one had an answer.
Perhaps most bizarrely someone asked who would refund him for time wasted on these sites (No, sorry, no refunds).
Of cause I know how every one feels. I have been ghosted six times in the last two months. It is soul destroying, I suspect that the rise of the female, hetro dom has not helped (from are point of view I mean). Not only are there ten thousand men chasing seven women but increasingly the girls are pairing up with each other. We (again men) are not too far from being cut out all together. Even siting on the washing machine does not work for us!
but I do insist that we (men) might have every right to vent, but we have no right to demand or expect any different. Maybe we expected to find a bevy of 22 year old nubile college students quing outside are bed room doors, but it is not the girls fault that it did not tern out like that. Similarly they did not expect the liars, creeps and bullies who dominate these sites.
Sorry I can not think of a proper ending. I feel that more and more people are getting more and more angry, but maybe that is just the modern world, and in any case, no one knows what to do about it all.
As all ways, spelling, garbled etc. Also I might well have offended a lot of people. Sorry but sometimes I just get tired of trying not to offend.