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She didn't require someone to silence any of her existing demons.

She needed someone that could entice those demons to come out of the shadows.

Someone who would dance with them, and play with them once they had been seduced from the silky darkness where they sat and waited.

She needed someone strong enough to bring every one of her demons to life, and allow her to explore that intense darkness with him, whilst protecting her and keeping her safe.

She needed someone to dance with her demons…

A kiss is just a gentle handshake of the lips, unless the magic of hidden chemistry is in play.

When that spark ignites, a simple touch of lips becomes a breathtaking moment that allows time to literally, and metaphorically, fold into itself.

The world fades away, leaving nothing but the beautiful, soft whisper of a moment shared, a secret that searches, moves, shifts and then finds its target between two souls.

A feeling, so natural and so nuanced, that it is like oxygen, and becomes as essential as the air itself.

In an instant, a kiss transcends the simplicity of contact.

It becomes a silent language of connection, an unspoken promise that, for as long as the stars burn, that moment, that touch of lip on lip, will linger, tender, beautiful, breathtaking and unforgettable.

The type of movement that touches two souls and unlocks a connection that words themselves cannot describe.

When chemistry enters the equation, every touch of lips becomes a tender conversation between souls.

In that moment, a kiss isn't merely a greeting or a simple gesture of affection.

It becomes a profound connection, an intimate dance that speaks volumes in the quietest, yet most beautiful of ways.

It's that ephemeral, magical, most breathtaking spark that can turn the ordinary into something absolutely extraordinary.

It reminds us that there are still places only the heart can navigate.

That simple kiss, becomes an unspoken promise that, for as long as the stars burn, that moment, that kiss, that connection, will linger, tender and unforgettable.

If the magic isn’t present, it’s nothing more than the taste of disappointment…

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🔗 ✅ 🆓 🔗 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I am a published author and I offer one my eBooks for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request  

Her strength comes from the ability to let go and be vulnerable…

Enjoy the pictures she shares online, however don’t focus your entire energy on those alone, when trying to discover what makes her the woman and human being that she is.

Her images will simply show you the persona she wants to show the world, often manipulating lighting, angles, filters, props, backgrounds and other factors to show everyone what she wants them to see, or what she personally enjoys about herself, or simply what she is comfortable with.

And this is fine, being her choice, her motivation, her decision.

However don’t think for a moment this reflects the actual components of what makes her the beautiful being she is.

She is a multi-faceted, amazing human being, that is made up of so much more than a simple pretty face and a skin suit that she displays for aesthetic, and often very personal reasons, but is more often than not actually sharing for herself, more than for your benefit.

Want to discover who and what she really is, and what makes up the beautiful human she is?

Look deeper into what makes her the person she is.

Discover those hidden places and beautiful traits that create solace for her.

Her spirit, her words, her desires, her character, her choices, her views, her fantasies, her dreams, her visions and her heart.

To understand the elegance and sophistication behind the mask that a woman wears, you must take the time to discover what makes her tick, what creates her vibe, what fills her dreams, what drives her hope, what fuels her motivations and what consumes her fantasies.

No matter how confident she seems, there will be layers of vulnerability that form her walls of steel.

Walls built from the interactions with toxic humans from her past and current.

The driving force behind her power, is not found in how she defends herself from the caustic environments of this world that she is constantly exposed to, and battered by.

Her power, and strength, comes from the ability to let go and be vulnerable with those she builds rapport and trust with.

The ones that she can open up to and know that she is offered unconditional acceptance in the most beautiful of ways that offer safe spaces within a safe place, to just be her unmasked self.

Where agenda or bias does not exist, and simple care and concern takes precedence in all conversation, interactions and activities.

When she trusts enough to drop her walls and allow her vulnerability to flow freely, the visual that forms is one of poetic clarity.

The raw, the real and the magical woman that she is, opens up to you in ways that leave you in a breathtaking state of wonder as she unfurls in ways that very few ever get to see, and even less are able to comprehend the importance of the why, and way, she shares that vulnerability.

That place and that moment when she no longer hides her flaws, her scars, her blemishes or the things that she focuses on that take so much effort for her to accept.

That place where she finally shares it all with you, knowing that you will never judge, always accept and only ever empower and support her, showing her how beautifully unique those self perceived issues actually are.

How the items she focuses on in her self-denigration, actually form important parts of her story and her character.

That they form her breathtaking uniqueness in itself, making her the most beautifully innocent soul that you, and so many others, have ever seen…

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🔗 ✅ 🆓 🔗 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I am a published author and I offer one my eBooks for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request me to do so. 

Your worth is not tied to how your body appears or conforms to societal standards...

For some that have lived a lifetime of psychological, verbal and physical abuse, where their self confidence has been battered and shattered by the toxic actions of those in their lives, or those who they have encountered, the concept of body positivity can be almost impossible to imagine or vision, far less achieve. Especially in the early stages of recovery and rediscovery of their beautiful selves.

A favourite of narcissistic humans, once they have captured and entrapped their victim and ensnared them into a relationship, is to psychologically condition their chosen victim into thinking no one will ever accept them, like them or love them, because of their alleged, and often non existent, faults including body shape, size, or image. This is the master key move of a narcissist. The human they do this to ends up believing no one else will ever want them, so they resign themselves to a life of accepting that abusive and toxic behaviour, out of fear of being alone.

The result of that treatment is a world of hurt, self denigration, self doubt and crippling anxiety for the human that has suffered that heinous psychological warfare. One of the few things that will change that humans post narcissist war PTSD is unconditional acceptance, patience, caring and love for that human. However no matter how much you lift a person up who has been abused in the ways described above, for some, getting to that point of body positivity can be a real struggle, and for some, just simply improbable or impossible.

No fault of their own. Habit has simply been hammered in so hard, that self denigration for some becomes the go to safe blanket of hell they become use to. For those that struggle with body positivity when they first enter my world, and who cannot grasp the concept of body positivity because of disconnection with themselves, I introduce the concept of body neutrality to them as the first step.

Body neutrality is a concept that shifts the focus away from the traditional narratives of body positivity or body negativity. Instead of promoting a constant state of self-love or body admiration, body neutrality encourages a more balanced and pragmatic relationship with one’s body. The idea is to appreciate the body for what it can do, rather than how it looks, and to reduce the emphasis on physical appearance altogether.

In practical terms, body neutrality means accepting your body as it is, without feeling the need to celebrate or condemn it. It’s about recognising that your worth is not tied to how your body appears or conforms to societal standards. This approach can be particularly liberating because it allows individuals to move away from the pressures of always having to love their bodies, which can be unrealistic for many, especially those struggling with body image issues.

Instead, body neutrality focuses on functional aspects, such as being grateful for what your body can do. Whether it’s walking, breathing, or simply existing. To do so without obsessing over its shape, size, or perceived imperfections. This mindset can create a more sustainable and less stressful way to live, where the body is seen as a vehicle for life experiences rather than a source of self-worth or identity.

Ultimately, body neutrality offers a middle ground, where people can disengage from the often overwhelming focus on appearance and instead cultivate a sense of peace and acceptance with their bodies, recognising that how one looks is just one small part of who they are.

Being a Dominant, is more than being a decent human being or a human that barks orders, or getting a submissive to kneel and provide sexual pleasures. Being a Dominant is about connection with another human that wants to trust in you. It’s about the genuine care of another human, or other humans in your world, and allowing them to find freedom from the demons that they have battled their entire lives.

Being a Dominant requires the deliberate act of choosing to take responsibility for another human being, encompassing their mental, physical, and psychosocial well-being. It also involves the selfless commitment to sacrifice your own needs, consistently placing the needs of another above your own.

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🔗 ✅ 🆓 🔗 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I am a published author and I offer one my eBooks for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request 

Emotions are a reactive and complicated thing.

Items and issues that we thought were long resolved can resurface unexpectedly, leaving us bewildered and feeling as vulnerable as we did when we were children.

Triggers from trauma and grief, past and present, all creating a navigable challenge in our worlds.

Questions of worthiness and belonging haunt us, and too often, we find ourselves answering with a resounding 'no'.

Yet, I assure you, the truth is quite the opposite.

You are indeed worthy and wanted.

No matter how much your head, your self doubt and your anxiety tries to assure you otherwise.

Negative thoughts have a way of creating a cyclonic onslaught of negative spin in our own heads.

A persistent narrative that undermines our self-esteem and distorts our view of our rightful place in the world.

Challenging these invasive thoughts with the strength of truth and self-compassion is a crucial thing to learn in our lives.

Recognise that these negative feelings, however powerful, never, ever define your true self.

They are simply shadows cast by past pain and future fears, not accurate reflections of your current reality.

Surround yourself with those who see your worth and reflect it back to you.

Engage in practices that foster positivity and growth, whether through creative expression, mindfulness, or connecting with nature.

Get into the positive habit of daily affirmations that actively refutes the whispers of doubt with affirmations of your inherent value.

When the actions and words of others have consistently beat us down for so long, the journey back to believing in your worth and value is definitely not linear.

It requires patience, persistence, and often, a leap of faith in one’s own untapped potential.

Hold fast to the truth that you are more than enough, deserving of love as well as a sense of belonging, just as you are.

This belief is not only your shield against the onslaught of self-doubt but also your beacon guiding you towards a beautiful life filled with self-acceptance and fulfilment.

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✅🔥 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I self publish my own eBooks and I offer one for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request it. 

Learn to hold her throat in one hand, her heart in the other and control her body, mind and soul with the words you growl and whisper into her ears as you prepare to brutally manhandle, fuck and use her…

Learn to hold her throat in one hand, her heart in the other, and control her body, mind, and soul with the words you growl and whisper into her ears as you prepare to brutally manhandle, fuck, and use her.

Let me explain that passage further. Anyone can bark a demand for a submissive to drop to her knees. However barking a simple demand and expecting a result is not what genuine Domination is. Far from it.

To be a Dominant, means you are both artist and artisan, sculpting moments of overwhelming intensity with the precision of your touch and the authority of your voice.

The space between pain and pleasure blurs into an amazing symphony of trust and mutual respect, each scene building upon the last to reach crescendos that are both exhilarating and transformative.

You understand the importance of building rapport, connection and trust. However trust itself is not enough.

The depth of trust she places in you must be met with an equal measure of responsibility from you as the Dominant. Handle her with both strength and care, knowing that in your hands, she finds her release and her refuge.

Manhandling is something most submissives enjoy. However as with anything worthwhile, it requires a balance that equalises itself. Understand the delicate balance of power and tenderness, the art of dictating pleasure through a commanding touch intermingled with the softest caresses.

Each movement is a visceral conversation, each restraint a promise, as you guide her through a breathtaking journey of sensation and surrender.

Navigate the contours of her desires like a map written in the language of her sighs and shivers. Become the conductor of the orchestra that is her moans and groans. As you delve deeper, let the intensity in your eyes mirror the passion in your actions, creating a symphony of the raw and the refined.

Your Dominance is not just about the constraints you impose, but also about the freedoms you unleash within her. Each command, a note struck on the strings of her psyche, resonates with the core of her being.

The true power of a D/s dynamic lies not merely in the actions you perform but in the depth of connection you nurture. It's an exchange so beautiful and so breathtakingly profound that it transcends the physical, enveloping both of you in a bond that is as intimate as it is unyielding…

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✅🔥 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I am a published author and self publish my own eBooks and I offer one for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request it. 

Look at the raw beauty that exudes from her. The beauty that drips from her pores, like perspiration that drenches and stains those once perfect satin sheets she owns, after you ravish and fuck her so savagely. Take note of the way she manages to intertwine vulnerability with strength as she kneels down to cede her power, that you step up to capture and contain…

Let's keep our eyes wide open to dream, telling our stories not just with words but in every little thing we do. In this place of safety that we have forged, in each others arms, where we can be as vulnerable or as hopeful as we really are, creating a whole new experience that neither of us could have accomplished on our own…

Look at her again. Sure, she is the beautiful, cute, gorgeous, sexy woman that you see. But do you see what else she is? Do you see beyond the mask she wears daily. Beyond the skin deep beauty. Beyond the persona and skin costume she offers to those that are blind to facts and reality.

What else is she?

She has grown up in a world that is driven by patriarchy, toxicity, violence, bias, racism and hatred.

A world where a girl becomes a woman, not from the beautiful transition of innocence, but more from a bathing of fire as she becomes aware that the world she has been brought up in is full of danger, abuse, hatred, bullying, assumption, condemnation, discrimination, class outcasting, jealousy, inequality and imbalance.

A world where she is not empowered to be her own woman, but is warned not to dress in certain ways, lest she attract predators.

A world where if she dresses cute and shows too much flesh, she is at risk of rapists who have defence attorneys who use her choice of dress code against her as an excuse on why she was assaulted.

A world where she cannot drink safely, because those same attorneys will use her inebriation as a defence mechanism when defending the rapists they represent.

A world where it’s dangerous to drink in public, because opportunistic predators are waiting to spike her drink when she is unguarded and not aware.

A world where she cannot walk through a park safely, especially if it is dark or she is not accompanied by others.

A world where she cannot visit certain countries, for fear of the very prevalent and real global sex trade.

A world where her own precautionary measures for birth control and STD safety mean zero when a common practise in this world from toxic individuals is the act of stealthing, which is only now beginning to be recognised in some countries as the abusive act of non consensual rape and criminal offence it is.

A world where she needs to protect what she sends to another, for fear of them not being discreet, nor holding their word and using those pictures and videos against her on the internet.

A world where she works in a position and puts in more work, more hours, more dedication and more experience, yet is paid less than her opposing gender counterparts.

A world where fair, justice, respect, protection, honesty are just words whispered on the wind and have no real meaning from most that she encounters.

A world where she speaks her truth out loud in defence of herself and her fellow tribe of the female leaning gender, and is openly and brazenly attacked and bullied by weak individuals who hide behind low intellect and anonymous screens.

A world where she has to be more than just a mere woman to survive.

She is woman, warrior, activist, feminist, survivor and all round superwoman. She has to be all of these, if she is to survive in this world the rest of us have created.

Created by some through actively participating in putrid and toxic acts. Created by many others who simply stand by and ignore what occurs. With change occurring by very few of us that actively take a stand, recognising the failings of our fellow humans and say enough is enough.

Look at her again. Now do you see beyond her skin deep? This is the world she exists in, yet you still only see the beautiful, flirty, sexy woman that she is.

You know why? Because she is fucking strong. Stronger than you could imagine. Perhaps now, you will look at that woman you covet and admire and enjoy, in a different light and respect her for living in a world that she has no choice but to exist in.

She is all woman, but she is also all warrior.

If you see someone getting mistreated, stand up, make noise, create awareness and enact change. One act at a time doesn’t make a change to an entire culture. But it will possibly make a change for the one you help. But also imagine for a moment, if a billion voices cry out and demand change in this world. Or two billion voices. Wouldn’t that be an amazing thing to witness real change occur in our world.

Change that empowers equality, safety, acceptance, love, respect, recognition, support, empowerment and zero judgment.

It all starts with one view, one voice, one choice to no longer accept what was, nor what is.

Are you ready to change? Are you ready to join a movement that is worthy of the world getting behind it.

It all starts with you. To respect another, you must first learn to set standards that you fall on your sword for, and learn to respect yourself. Only then, can you truly begin to respect others…

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This is an excerpt from one of my new books titled “BDSM and the modern human: Empowering shift that is truly required…” Due for release in the third quarter of 2024.

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📚 📇 📚 ✅🔥 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I self publish my own eBooks and I offer one for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request it. 

Don’t procrastinate.

Dont choose to make changes one day.

Make today day one.

Repeat after me.

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”2023 was the last year of accepting and tolerating less in my life than I deserve…”

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Fake friends, takers, soul suckers, bad relationships, gossip, innuendo, false truths, drama.

If it doesn’t nourish your soul, then it’s time to get rid of it.

Let it hurt.

Let it heal.

Let it go.

Love yourself.

Own your bullshit.

Choose your path.

Feel your feelings.

Set and enforce your boundaries, instead of building walls.

Time to start living in the current, planning for the future and letting go of the anchors of the past.

You’ve got this…

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✅🔥 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I self publish my own eBooks and I offer one for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request it.