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You don’t need to make new resolutions for a new year. Resolutions are like promises whispered into thin air, vanishing on the wind as soon as an afternoon breeze kicks in. Why aim for new heights and plan to make all changes in the world when the true transformation begins within?

To initiate change, start by recognising your bad habits. Acknowledge them not as failures, but as beacons guiding you to a better path. Then, put an action plan in place to break these patterns. It's not about grand gestures, but small, consistent steps towards a healthier self.

Identify the people who drain your spirit rather than uplift it. Choose to step away from their shadow, and instead, surround yourself with those who reflect the kind of person you aspire to be. Their light will help illuminate your path.

Before you attempt to introduce new positives into your life, focus on removing the negatives. It's like preparing a garden. Uproot the weeds to make room for new growth. Letting go isn't just about loss. It's about making space for new opportunities and experiences.

Remember, to fly on a breeze, a kite must first be set free. But it also needs a steady hand to guide it through a balance of freedom and direction. Be that steady hand for yourself. Trust in your ability to rise above the challenges and soar towards your aspirations.

Your journey isn't about reaching a destination. It's about the wisdom and strength you gain with each step you take. Be gentle with yourself, for every step forward is a victory, no matter how small. In this new year, may you find not just positivity, but a profound sense of peace and purpose.

Happy New Year to all. May 2024 bring you a better sense of self understanding and prove to be a positive and fruitful year that brings you prosperity to your world and peace and positivity to your mental health and state of mind.

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🆓 ✅🔥 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I self publish my own eBooks and I offer one for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request it. 

Everyday lingered

With the bitter aftertaste

That accompanies heartbreak

Her past a dystopia of

Bad choices blended with

Unsavoury experiences

Time and experience had forced her

To build impenetrable walls

That kept others out and herself in

He ventured into her life

Teaching her simple

Yet poignant lessons

He taught her

That it was ok

To choose to heal

Rather than be

Weighed down by

Anchors of her past

That it was fine

To let the storms calm

The storms that raged so vividly in her head

He taught her

To not only carry the

Scars of her mistaken choices

But to wear those scars

Proudly and impressively

With head held high

He taught her that

Being human

Is about making mistakes

Mistakes that create lessons

Lessons that allow for understanding

Understanding that enables evolution of self

She began to understand

That some days were going to be

cold, grey and desolate

Yet some would also be

warm, bright and sunny,

offering a hint of hope...

She had become lost in her journey. The coldness found in the solemn and dark corners of the night eating at her bones. The memories of her distant past seeping from her soul, crushing her spirit and hurting so deeply.

He recognised her pain. He understood that type of pain intimately. He knew from first hand experience how dangerous that pain was. He reached out and offered his warm embrace. Taking her into his arms and drawing her in close.

He held her tight and concentrated on the parts that she could not love about herself...

When you look at her and wonder why she seems so cautious, even though you offer your hand of protection.

Why she doesn’t trust so easily, even though you offer transparency and unconditional kindness.

Why she questions if you are genuine, even though you don’t do anything that she, yourself or others would consider a trigger or red flag.

Look past yourself and look at her.

Not just the person you see from the outside.

Not just the physical presence of the woman that you see and are enamoured by.

Look at what has occured in her lifetime to make her what she is today.

Perhaps she doesn’t fear you or what you and her have the potential to become.

Perhaps she doesn’t see any issues based upon the hear and now of you both.

Perhaps what she fears is fed subconsciously by the toxic actions of those in her past.

A cloak of fear and apprehension of those issues arising again in her future world and existence.

Toxic actions of those long gone, yet the tendrils of those actions still grip her and hold her.

Perhaps she tells herself lies.

Lies that have become her blanket of safety that she constantly turns to.

Falsities fed of thoughts embedded through interactions with those that are selfish and nasty.

Interactions with those that embellish reality and embed themselves in negativity.

Interactions with those that love to spread vitriol and untruths.

Interactions that had led her to believe that she was incapable of giving and receiving love.

Unworthy of happiness.

Unworthy of being loved.

Interactions with others who had continuously fed her with untruths and broken promises.

Promises to always love her.

Always treat her with respect.

Over time she had lost her faith in others.

Lost her own self esteem.

Lost her confidence.

Which inevitably led to losing herself.

To become part of her future, you must learn not just about her, but also about her past.

Understand her.

The real her.

Not the practised mask she presents to others.

Not the persona you see online.

What makes her laugh.

What makes her cry.

What makes her the woman she is today.

Then teach her how to trust again.

To care again.

To love again.

To live again…

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✍️📝 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I self publish my own eBooks and I offer one for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request it. 

Your passion, unbridled and unrestrained, surges through your body like a tempest, and you move against me with an urgency that mirrors my own. Lust-fueled moans escape both of our lips, harmonising with the rhythmic symphony of raindrops on a hollow tin roof.

Wandering hands, like explorers in uncharted territory, traverse the landscape of desire, seeking hidden treasures and secret pleasures. Every touch, every caress, is a new discovery of passion coated vulnerability.

Delivering forced pleasure, I guide you to the brink of ecstasy, where pleasure and pain become indistinguishable, merging into a singular, electrifying sensation. It's a dance of contradictions, where the mind races to catch up with the body's primal desires. Desires that I draw from you, watching you teeter on the edge of desperation driven pleasure…

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📕📕 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I self publish my own eBooks and I offer one for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request it. 📕📕

When he grabs a fistful of your hair as he mounts you from behind.

You feel his cock enter you as he begins to fuck you.

Hard. Fast. Brutal.

Driving his cock deep inside you, time and time again.

His cock. His thrusts. The manhandling all stimulating you.

The perfect combination of mental and physical arousal.

You want to cum. More than just a want.

An overwhelming urgency and need to cum.

You beg him to let you cum.

He growls at you. You know better than to disobey.

He edges you, not letting you cum.

Controlling you, controlling your cunt, controlling your orgasms.

You need to cum, so desperately. The desire now beyond intense.

However you know better. You only cum when he allows.

His cock drives deep. Your cervix a receptor of his own special delivery of pleasurepain.

His thrusts are incessant. Continuous. Crucifying pleasure, with so much need.

You feel him lean forward and he begins to whisper in your ear.

You feel yourself build.

You feel yourself begin to lose control.

His growl is raspy, rough and nasty.

His instructions send you over the edge.

His voice your entire and only focus.

That moment where your needs, desires and wants are all delivered.

The moment he grants you permission to cum on his cock.

As he begins to talk you through your orgasm…

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She reached out. Hands bleached with blood that stained her soul and her skin. Time itself had dealt wounds on her heart.

A thousand cuts, each one small, yet deep, intense and painful. Creating cuts that weep continuously. Unrepairable damage. Continual hurt and pain.

Until him, she could only self triage her bleeding heart. Placing pressure on the wounds inflicted by those she had crossed paths with in her past. The ones that would use her and then so conveniently spit her out.

Self pressure to slow the emotional flow and never letting others in close enough to help control the constant outpouring of anguish and sorrow.

Until Him. He possessed strength in his hands, but also had the innate ability to be soft and gentle enough to cradle her body as well as her heart, when she needed him most.

He possessed healing hands that gave her what she needed, when she needed it…

✅🔥 Thank you for reading. I enjoy creating erotic writing, erotic art and writing about the kink lifestyle. I write here and on my own private blog platform. I self publish my own eBooks and I offer one for free for those interested in reading. If you would like to find out more about my writing and my blog, please don’t hesitate to message me and I will be happy to share information if you request it. 

She is a paradox of simplicity and complexity to those that don’t understand the nature of a strong woman that is beautifully submissive. It's not about weakness. As an independent, self-sufficient human with a profound craving for love, care and human connection, she understands that being able to count on another as much as herself strengthens her journey through life.

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Free educational book giveaway

I am an author who sells educational and erotica books, but I also give access to two of my eBooks for free. No catches. Just download for free. I decided to give one of each category away for free on my online bookstore, in order to give back to the kink community, but also in order to help spread awareness of important things such as consent and safety. I cannot put a link in my signature here, due to TheCage policies, however if you message me, I am happy to provide you with details on where to download my book.

It can feel like unchartered territory

Imagine you're new to the world of BDSM, and it feels like uncharted territory. Setting boundaries might seem overwhelming at first. It's like stepping into a new room, unsure of what's inside. However it is crucial to your safety. Physically, mentally and psychologically. To begin, think of boundaries as the walls of this room. They define what's comfortable and what's off-limits for you, both physically and emotionally. Picture a line drawn on the floor. On one side are things you're open to exploring, and on the other side are things that make you uneasy.

Understanding how is the key

Now, here's the key. It's okay if you're not entirely sure where to draw that line at first. Just take a moment to reflect. What physical actions or sensations do you think you'd enjoy or prefer to avoid? On an emotional level, what feelings are acceptable to you in this context, and which ones give you pause?

It's like examining a map of this new world. List specific activities or behaviors related to BDSM that you're curious about or willing to try. Then, clearly define the actions or behaviors that you're not comfortable with, the ones that are firmly off-limits for you. This is like drawing your boundaries on that room's floor plan. Read below for practical examples to help guide you through this.

Boundaries are crucial when playing or experimenting

Boundaries are the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, however in the world of BDSM they are crucial to understand, discuss, communicate, set and respect. How do you set your own boundaries if you are new to this world? How do you communicate your boundaries to another person, if you don’t even understand them yourself? It’s not as daunting as it seems. It’s a rather simple process to begin this discovery about yourself. Take a moment with me here and let’s try to identify your limits, both physical and emotional.

Why should I understand my own boundaries

The exercise of understanding your boundaries, is done in order to understand what activities or behaviours you are comfortable exploring, and which ones lie outside your comfort zone. You also need to be honest with yourself and recognise that boundaries may evolve over time. And yes, contrary to your initial stoic thinking that boundaries do not change, they often do evolve along with you as you become comfortable with things. Understanding and respecting your boundaries is not only crucial for your well-being but also essential for building trust with another.

Example of a submissives boundary that could change

To illustrate this, consider the example of a submissive who is initially uncomfortable with public displays of submission, such as kneeling in public. Over time, as they gain trust and confidence in their Dominant partner, their boundary may evolve, and they may become more open to engaging in such activities. This example demonstrates how boundaries can change for a submissive and why it's essential to regularly examine and communicate them.

Example of a Dominants boundary that could change

Consider a Dominant who, initially, had a firm boundary against engaging in any form of impact play, such as spanking or flogging. They might have found the idea intimidating and uncomfortable.

However, as they explore their desires further and gain experience, they develop trust in their submissive partner and refine their skills. Over time, they might revisit this boundary and, with clear communication and consent, become more open to trying impact play. This evolution in their boundary demonstrates how personal comfort levels can change as individuals become more knowledgeable and confident in their BDSM dynamics.

Communication and sharing is the key

Remember, just like in the example of a submissive who initially shied away from public displays of submission but later grew more comfortable, boundaries can evolve over time. They're not set in stone. As you gain experience and self-awareness, some boundaries may shift. However understanding this about yourself is crucial, as communication is the key. Imagine you're sharing this room with a partner. Your partner is blindfolded. You are helping them walk around the room and avoid furniture so they don’t stumble and hurt themselves as they navigate the room blindly. Sharing your insights and boundaries with them is vital. Think of it as discussing the layout of this room, so both of you know what's where. It ensures you're on the same page and helps build trust as you navigate this new world together.

Practical Exercise to understanding your own boundaries

Find a quiet and comfortable space where you can reflect on your boundaries. Have a notebook or digital document ready to record your thoughts.

a. Identify Physical Boundaries:

Begin by considering your physical boundaries. What physical activities or interactions are you comfortable with in a Dominant/submissive relationship? For example, do you have specific physical acts or sensations you enjoy or wish to avoid?

b. Explore Emotional Boundaries:

Next, focus on your emotional boundaries. What emotional experiences or dynamics are acceptable to you in this context? Are there particular feelings you want to explore, or are there emotions that make you uncomfortable in a D/s relationship? Are their words or descriptions you wish to explore or avoid?

c. List Activities and Behaviours:

Make a list of specific activities or behaviours related to Dominance and submission that you are willing to engage in. Include those that you are curious about and open to exploring.

d. Identify Off-Limits Actions:

Clearly define the actions or behaviours that are outside your comfort zone or that are non-negotiable for you. These can be related to physical actions, specific language, or any other aspect of D/s dynamics. Your off-limit items are not negotiable to another party. Ever. Unless you change that of course.

e. Reflect on Evolution:

Understand that boundaries can evolve over time. What you are comfortable with now might change as you gain more experience or self-awareness. Be open to revisiting and updating your boundaries as needed. But not when pressured by another party because of their agenda. Only when you are ready to.

f. Communication:

Remember that effective communication with your partner(s) about your boundaries is crucial. Share your insights and boundaries with them, and encourage open dialogue to ensure everyone is on the same page.

This exercise will help you gain a clear understanding of your boundaries within the context of Dominance and submission. It's an essential step in establishing and maintaining a healthy and fulfilling D/s relationship.

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Footnote

This article, along with my different educational books on BDSM, aims to provide suggestions and ideas rather than prescribing specific advice. The intention is to empower readers to engage in critical thinking, explore their own desires, and challenge existing practices. Whether someone is new to BDSM or experienced, these resources encourage reflection and the possibility of injecting fresh and new ideas into their lifestyle and / or dynamics.

Empowerment, self-awareness, and self-education are powerful tools that can lead to transformative outcomes. By embracing these principles, individuals and couples in BDSM dynamics can experience personal growth, deeper connections, and positive transformations. BDSM offers a realm of excitement, sexuality, and fetishism, but it also provides benefits such as accountability, structure, and the importance of consent.

As readers navigate their own unique journeys in BDSM, they are encouraged to embrace the power of thinking critically, educating themselves, and continually reevaluating their dynamics. By doing so, they can unlock new possibilities, enrich their experiences, and create fulfilling and authentic connections within their BDSM relationships.

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✅🔥 Free educational book giveaway

I am an author who sells educational and erotica books, but I also give access to two of my eBooks for free. No catches. Just download for free. I decided to give one of each category away for free on my online bookstore, in order to give back to the kink community, but also in order to help spread awareness of important things such as consent and safety. I cannot put a link in my signature here, due to TheCage policies, however if you message me, I am happy to provide you with details on where to download my book.

*Use the following Coupon Code at checkout to obtain this pictured eBook about consent and safety for free : CONSENT

A submissives ability to touch a man's soul and create a profound sense of comfort through His vulnerability is nothing short of magical. It begins with her unwavering acceptance, creating a safe space where He can shed his armour and reveal his true self without fear of judgment.

Her empathetic understanding, displayed through her gentle words and kind gestures, reassures Him that His emotions are not only valid but cherished. In her presence, He finds solace, a rare connection that transcends the superficial, allowing Him to open up, share His innermost thoughts and fears, and, in doing so, heal wounds He may not have even known existed.

This remarkable bond nurtures His soul, providing warmth and strength, while the vulnerability He shares becomes a bridge to profound intimacy, trust, and a love that knows no bounds.