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7 years ago. October 22, 2017 at 3:22 PM

Why do some doms think they can set a submissive limits?

 

They are not for you to decide. A submissive limits are there because she has decided that's what she needs.

 

I am all for limits to be pushed and discussed but never happy for someone to tell me what they are nor for him to decide what they are. 

 

 

Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin} - Exactly, ma'am.
It makes me laugh whenI read or am told that in discussion. He has not earned the right to determine such an important aspect of my Life, existemce and Being.
When I counter Doms on that, I am usually told that I am trying control the situation.
YES! I am.
It hasn't been determined yet if You're #my Sir. Until that Time, I must advocate for mySelf, respectfully, fully, completely, withOUT apology.
It is the only Time when I will have full autonomy wotjin the D/s relationship to do so. Once I give my Submission to Him, I am His - His Alone, and I will be an attentive sub. Therefore, I #need ... I #must be certain that He will care for, and handle me properly.
And I will also advocate on behalf of any sub or slave if I discern maltreatment or any other inequitible situation - withOUT apology.

#ijs
7 years ago
TakenLower - Definitely move on. That’s a loser, yes you get to control your limits and losers are a limit so just move on and don’t waste a thought on him.
7 years ago
Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin} - The above is a compilation of my discussions with various Doms who inquired with me.
Yes, losers are definitely a limit.
7 years ago
TakenLower - I don’t know what is wrong here, I think I’m seeing a possible problem with the comment interface or maybe I’m just dumb and using it wrong. I was speaking to the original poster of the original post, not the comments. This has happened several times people think I’m talking to them but
I’m talking to the person that made the post ?
7 years ago
Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin} - Your comment log/post as responding to the original status/query :)
And ... no ... you're not dumb <3
7 years ago
Wanth3realov3​(other male) - Everyone k kws a sub is a hidden Dom and Dom is a silent sub but the proper sub that craves the desired attention that mutrally agreed apon then there should not be a problem unless the Dom with Complaints just likes bitchin
7 years ago

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